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I'm having a hard time with the truth behind masturbation. I'm really confused already & I don't know what is the truth from the lies. . Please help me. thanks.
Last Tuesday, my classmate and Bestfriend ate supper together after class. After the meal, we engaged in some "Boy Talk. My classmate, whose father was a medical doctor, asked me this question: " Prostate Cancer is rampant to men who do not have sex or touch. Most of the patients diagnosed with these illness are priests, because they rarely do this because it is wrong. How will you advise them to preserve their health and well-being by masturbating and releasing the "dirt" from their bodeis when they consider it as a sin?" I was shocked and dumbfounded. I don't knwo how to answer the question. My Christian conviction tells me that the act is wrong, but my future profession as a nurse dictates that this is but a normal process of the human body to remove the accumulated dirt inside. As the conversation went on, my best friend told me that he also does it, although not that often. H does it whenever "the need" arises to remove it. I told them the basis why it is wrong, butn I just can't convince them, because as nurses we have to promothe the optimum level of health of every individual. And if restricting the act will hinder in the healthy process of mastrubation, as the medical studies would say, it would jeopardize our goal. On the other hand, I don't know what to do because all these things are scrambling within me. I admit that I am currently struggling with masturbation. SEXTERS ( a group from the Foundation for Adolescent Development) advised me that the Church condemns the "excessive" mastrubation. You can do it provided you do not have lust and that you just wasnt to clean up your body. I also asked a carmelite priest-psychologist about this when I confessed to him. He just laughed and told me that it tis just normal, and that I should continue it to achieve normal development. If I won't do it, he said, I would turn into a "loco." My SD, Genrev are against the act, even my conscience rebels.
I am confused. I need you help bros., It's my crisis today. My friends, even my bestfreind are carefree about it, while I am striving to eradicate it from my system. My mind tells me that I am just making a problem out of something I shouldn't be troubled about.
Please help me. I need help. I don't know where to go.
I'm having a hard time with the truth behind masturbation. I'm really confused already & I don't know what is the truth from the lies. . Please help me. thanks.
Last Tuesday, my classmate and Bestfriend ate supper together after class. After the meal, we engaged in some "Boy Talk. My classmate, whose father was a medical doctor, asked me this question: " Prostate Cancer is rampant to men who do not have sex or touch. Most of the patients diagnosed with these illness are priests, because they rarely do this because it is wrong. How will you advise them to preserve their health and well-being by masturbating and releasing the "dirt" from their bodeis when they consider it as a sin?" I was shocked and dumbfounded. I don't knwo how to answer the question. My Christian conviction tells me that the act is wrong, but my future profession as a nurse dictates that this is but a normal process of the human body to remove the accumulated dirt inside. As the conversation went on, my best friend told me that he also does it, although not that often. H does it whenever "the need" arises to remove it. I told them the basis why it is wrong, butn I just can't convince them, because as nurses we have to promothe the optimum level of health of every individual. And if restricting the act will hinder in the healthy process of mastrubation, as the medical studies would say, it would jeopardize our goal. On the other hand, I don't know what to do because all these things are scrambling within me. I admit that I am currently struggling with masturbation. SEXTERS ( a group from the Foundation for Adolescent Development) advised me that the Church condemns the "excessive" mastrubation. You can do it provided you do not have lust and that you just wasnt to clean up your body. I also asked a carmelite priest-psychologist about this when I confessed to him. He just laughed and told me that it tis just normal, and that I should continue it to achieve normal development. If I won't do it, he said, I would turn into a "loco." My SD, Genrev are against the act, even my conscience rebels.
I am confused. I need you help bros., It's my crisis today. My friends, even my bestfreind are carefree about it, while I am striving to eradicate it from my system. My mind tells me that I am just making a problem out of something I shouldn't be troubled about.
Please help me. I need help. I don't know where to go.
