For Dating Couples...

[LadyBird]

I was wondering how much time you all spend with your girlfriend/boyfriend during the week(like how many days a week).

And how much time is spending too much time together and what is the ideal amount of time to be spent with your S.O.?

 

[Dawn Marie]

Oops.

 

[IslandBreeze]

When my husband and I were dating, I couldn't stand to be away from him! We were together EVERY SINGLE DAY of the week! Now I can go away for a week with my girlfriends, and I'm okay without him! It's amazing how much more secure I've become since getting married!

 

[GodBoy809]

i see kristi, at least, 5 days a week ... mainly cus of school. Its a lot less than that during the summer though.

 

[Lizzi4Christ]

I don't. He lives 500 miles away. Out of 10 months, we've been together for a week.

However, we do spend about... 4 hours a day talking, if that counts

 

[JahRawks]

Yup yup, that's us, we're on the phone or online for around 3-4 hours a day almost every day, I miss her when I can't talk with her, hehe Lizzi that is, but I'm secure knowing she loves me, even though it is hard being away from her for such a long period of time, oh well, hopefully next fall all that will change, I'm planning on going to college out there, which means, we'll prolly spend every single day together, hmmm, wonder how much she'll like me then when she can't get rid of me God Bless

 

[LadyBird]

During the summer my boyfriend and I see each other probably 4 or 5 times a week....maybe even more some weeks....but we still do see our friends. But when we were both in high school, we saw each other about 3 or 4 times a week. Now that we are going to college and have classes together, we will probably see each other even more. But it really doesn't matter because I love spending time with him.

 

[kunai_wolf]

i see Mo-chan about once a month if even that, except the months of camp. then it's a week at a time, probably 2 weeks each year. we're both too old for one though. i think we're gonna be junior faculty at it. it's the one we met in i really want to see her more, but on average, i see her maybe once or twice a month. sometimes it's 2 or 3 months that we don't see each other for. but we both have IM and are both on just about every night. there's still nothing like being with her in person though. giving a real physical hug is much better than online.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

Ok, in the past four years that I have been with my fiancee, we saw eachother in September 1999, Feb. 2000, November 2001 (which is when we got engaged), May 2002, November 2002 and now August 2003 he is finally out of the NAVY and we get to see eachother every day. We dated one week before getting engaged, but we had known eachother since 7th grade, which was 10 years ago. I am glad that he is home now and I am really getting excited about our up coming wedding in 109 days.

 

[sparrow]

I see my boyfriend about 6 or 7 days a week, for about 4 hours a day. I've never really thought about it, but thats a lot of time! lol. I love him so much though, I cherish all the time we get to spend together.

 

[DaveKerwin]

6-7 days a week is the majority, holy cow!

I see her three days a week, four would be nice though.

 

[ej]

Hmm, Phil and I have recently cut down... we were losing perspective of our lives, and thinking only of each other... it almost became unhealthy, but by taking stock, and spending small amounts of quality time, we hope to rebuild our trust whilst maintaining our personal relationships with God and with our friends and families!

 

[Snowy]

I see Josh (BIGJOSHDOGG) atleast 2 or 3 times a week

 

[oneiric]

I want someone to be my life
I want someone to be as addicted to me as I am to them.

 

[ej]

I want someone to be my life
I want someone to be as addicted to me as I am to them.

No, you don't...

I'm getting over a boyfriend addiction - we spent so much time together that we lost perspective of everything else in our lives. That's bad.

 

[GREG]

yes but it nice to get away to gather your thoughts and do something for yourself. dont ever depend on your mate to do all things in life.... Is that ok or shall I run away now

 

[GodBoy809]

yeah, thats very true....God is the only one you want to be that way with.

 

[ej]

Yeah! Right on, God boy!

*high five*

 

[kiwichristian]

Well, I voted 4-5 days a week.

Actually me and my girlfriend are quite a long way away.
I met her over the Internet. She is comin to see me in December (yay!)
I cherish her and love to talk with her on the phone, and through emails.
Me and her have so much in common. Hopefully, soon, me and her are going to get married.
Perhaps next year.
Tho I do wish I can give her a kiss

 

[oneiric]

Well, I disagree.