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For celibates

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Well actually is ain't an act. It is more of wanting to save celibracy until you are married. And that the Lord will guide us to that because we should rely on His will and way. And that if we don't get married nor have children, we ought to remain a virgin throughout the rest of our lives if God calls us to do so! If God calls me to do so, than that is His will and not for me or others to decide.
 
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Psalms101 said:
What did your friends/ loved ones say when they found out you were called to celibacy? How did they react?

Could you clarify which definition of celibacy you are referring to? Do you mean *only* those people who are committed to staying single and celibate for life? Or are you also including people who intend to marry someday and are saving sex for marriage? You might want to modify your original post to let us know exactly what you're asking about. :)
 
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fishstix said:
Could you clarify which definition of celibacy you are referring to? Do you mean *only* those people who are committed to staying single and celibate for life? Or are you also including people who intend to marry someday and are saving sex for marriage? You might want to modify your original post to let us know exactly what you're asking about. :)

Well it depends on what the Lord wants in our lives whether or not if we should have a relationship and get married and save the gift of virginity during our wedding night.
 
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Psalms101 said:
I am referring to a life-long calling. I have been called to a life long celibacy for a number of years, but I have told very few people. I have been questioned a lot recently about why I don't date, and I am trying to decide who/ when to tell, and what kind of reactions to prepare for.

If God wants me to date, then that is His call and if not, again that is His call.
 
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