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<blockquote data-quote="bèlla" data-source="post: 75751428" data-attributes="member: 416395"><p>Okay. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>We’re in the middle of a pandemic with massive unemployment. They must feel pretty secure to behave that way in light of the climate. They’re rolling the dice and risking their livelihood.</p><p></p><p>I’d wager the matter is two-fold. They don’t believe you’ll tell or worry about losing their jobs if you do. Their aggressiveness is a show of power. They know their position within the company and aren’t afraid to rock the boat.</p><p></p><p>Speak to your father about increasing your visibility and adopt a new standard in your presentation and discourse. Sign up for Toastmasters if you can. It will boost your confidence and presence.</p><p></p><p>You don’t have to fit in. You have to step into the real you and let it shine. Bring the matter to the Lord and place a prayer request on the <a href="https://www.christianforums.com/forums/prayer-wall.10/" target="_blank">Prayer Wall</a>.</p><p></p><p>I haven’t dealt with this in the workplace but I’ve been attacked because of my lifestyle and mindset. Misery loves company. When you don’t join the bandwagon it ruffles feathers. I confront it in different ways depending on the statement.</p><p></p><p>I never get angry or resort to name calling. Even if they do. Mimicking their behavior debases me. I take the higher road and maintain my decorum. It emphasizes their pettiness and seed of discontent. Often jealousy, envy, or low self-esteem.</p><p></p><p>I won’t be their punching bag or play by their rules. It inevitably ends. I remain collected and they look like raging fools. That’s the best way to handle detractors. Never forget your place. That’s the purpose behind the attack. They want pull you down. When they try go higher and stay there. Leave the lowness to them.</p><p></p><p>In my experience, your biggest foes often see your greatest strengths. Even when you don’t. Reverse engineer the barbs. Turn them on their heads. What are they really saying about themselves? How much does your presence unnerve them? That’s the truth beneath the posturing.</p><p></p><p>Yours in His Service,</p><p></p><p><span style="color: #00b3b3">~bella</span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bèlla, post: 75751428, member: 416395"] Okay. :) We’re in the middle of a pandemic with massive unemployment. They must feel pretty secure to behave that way in light of the climate. They’re rolling the dice and risking their livelihood. I’d wager the matter is two-fold. They don’t believe you’ll tell or worry about losing their jobs if you do. Their aggressiveness is a show of power. They know their position within the company and aren’t afraid to rock the boat. Speak to your father about increasing your visibility and adopt a new standard in your presentation and discourse. Sign up for Toastmasters if you can. It will boost your confidence and presence. You don’t have to fit in. You have to step into the real you and let it shine. Bring the matter to the Lord and place a prayer request on the [URL='https://www.christianforums.com/forums/prayer-wall.10/']Prayer Wall[/URL]. I haven’t dealt with this in the workplace but I’ve been attacked because of my lifestyle and mindset. Misery loves company. When you don’t join the bandwagon it ruffles feathers. I confront it in different ways depending on the statement. I never get angry or resort to name calling. Even if they do. Mimicking their behavior debases me. I take the higher road and maintain my decorum. It emphasizes their pettiness and seed of discontent. Often jealousy, envy, or low self-esteem. I won’t be their punching bag or play by their rules. It inevitably ends. I remain collected and they look like raging fools. That’s the best way to handle detractors. Never forget your place. That’s the purpose behind the attack. They want pull you down. When they try go higher and stay there. Leave the lowness to them. In my experience, your biggest foes often see your greatest strengths. Even when you don’t. Reverse engineer the barbs. Turn them on their heads. What are they really saying about themselves? How much does your presence unnerve them? That’s the truth beneath the posturing. Yours in His Service, [COLOR=#00b3b3]~bella[/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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