Today was the day of my first kiss. It was set up real nice, at an ice skating rink. Everything leading up to it was so romantic and sweet! ...until it happened. To put it bluntly, he "frenched" me and I did NOT like it!! He was incredibly excited about it and said how happy he was to share his first kiss with the girl he loved, the girl of his dreams. So of course I'm not going to tell him I thought it was gross!! I don't know what to do!!!
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Tenorvoice
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I'm sorry to hear that you did not like it (some people don't, I now that I didn't @ first). Just pray for him to slow things down a little bit if you were unconfotable and let him know. Be honest with him and let him know how you feel.
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mathias1979
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I know a lot of people who were kind of grossed out the first time they frenched kissed...including myself. I agree with what others have said...just say you were a little surprised by the kiss and say you'd like to have a few regular kisses first.
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Living4Him03
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Hehe. My first kiss was at 19 and I also thought it was gross. I thought it would be this sweet little peck. That's when I found out the guy I was dating at the time had bad breath and was an awful kisser lol. If you don't want to french kiss, then make that clear to him. Set the boundaries together. If you do, tell him to take it slower and learn together how to kiss so that you both like kissing one another. 
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Just also be aware that fior the man, intensive kissing [especially "French kissing"] is deeply erotic and sexually arousing. This is crossing an erotic boundary for a couple, and it is a big deal. Once this kind of eroticism is accepted, negotiations for further boundaries is on the horizon. You can be sure that kiss aroused your boyfriend as much as it disgusted you!
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*Miau*
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The first kiss has totally been blown out of proportions - They are not so great - they can be very special - but logically when you kiss for the first time, you are not a world champion - not even close... So of course the french kissing is a little bit gross at first, because none of you have tried it before so you don't know:'
a) how it's supposed to feel
b) how it's supposed to be done correctly...
The first time it probably feels like kissing a tomato - without all the drewl... lol it's weird feeling another person's tonue in your mouth for the first time - I was disgusted at first, but then it got better.
I was an "experienced" kisser when I met my boyfriend. He'd never really kissed before, and the first time we kissed, I gave him a french kiss, and he was kinda surprised, and he didn't know what to think about it. Now he's a great kisser!
You will get better at it, and I bet it's something you will - along the lone - enjoy very much.
a) how it's supposed to feel
b) how it's supposed to be done correctly...
The first time it probably feels like kissing a tomato - without all the drewl... lol it's weird feeling another person's tonue in your mouth for the first time - I was disgusted at first, but then it got better.
I was an "experienced" kisser when I met my boyfriend. He'd never really kissed before, and the first time we kissed, I gave him a french kiss, and he was kinda surprised, and he didn't know what to think about it. Now he's a great kisser!
You will get better at it, and I bet it's something you will - along the lone - enjoy very much.
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Everyone seems to expect their first kiss to be this magical moment that's perfectly done... but I think anything besides some kind of sweet peck would be pretty awkward for a first kiss!!
I was 18 when I had my first kiss and we dated for just over a year. My current boyfriend and I have talked about kissing and want to wait just a little while. If the way he kissed you made you pretty uncomfortable, I would tell him! Either ask him to slow down or next time he kisses you, cut off the kiss before it reaches a french kiss. Don't be afriad to be honest with him! Communication is one of the biggest things in a relationship.
I was 18 when I had my first kiss and we dated for just over a year. My current boyfriend and I have talked about kissing and want to wait just a little while. If the way he kissed you made you pretty uncomfortable, I would tell him! Either ask him to slow down or next time he kisses you, cut off the kiss before it reaches a french kiss. Don't be afriad to be honest with him! Communication is one of the biggest things in a relationship.
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JillLars said:My first kiss was the same way. The guy was an awful kisser, and then to make things worse, when we were done he said, "mmm...doritos" cause I had been eating doritos chips.
LOL!!!! Sorry, I'm sure you didn't think it was funny, at least at that time anyways, hehe.
He didn't make me feel uncomfortable, it was just, umm, odd.
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Tenorvoice
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mina said:
That is the way that it sould be.........doesn't always happen tho .
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