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This guy gets it.But if you literally have to be swept off your feet then perhaps something like this is better.
Parasailling?
Bungy jumping?
I like hiking dates. Let’s see how well he handles physical exertion, bugs, and sore feet. Does he talk or does he play Darude Sandstorm on loop to distract him from the pain?Elevated heart rate is very romantic.
The two of us can go out to eat afterwards too, if he wants. No fashion pressure that way.
If he survives the hiking date, he can graduate to the canoe trip. *laughs evilly* Let’s see if he can survive communicating with me about how to steer a boat, or whether he will end up dead in the water.
I've heard that some Christian single ladies, if they meet a man outside of their church....if the guy asks them out...she makes it policy to make their first date at church...as opposed to dinner or coffee or luch.
However, isn't this a little too soon though?
I believe the Lord wants me to be a pastor, so I would choose someone who is ready to be a pastor's wife.
never heard of this kind of thing before. wouldn't she want to meet someone who is already a Christian?
Thank you!I sensed that was the case. May the Lord grant you a kindhearted help meet with a genteel and teachable spirit.
If I ever get in a situation where I have a bunch of Christian men competing for my hand, this is probably how I would decide between them. Being a proficient outdoorsman would help my future husband smooth things over with his new in-laws. And besides, we'll have something to talk about at dinner afterwards, instead of straining for awkward rote lines.I like the way you think.
Start a show like Survivor, but winner gets dinner with you.
Church? Nah. He's just sitting in the service. That's a good way to ensure that he'll get bored and leave. Save it for later in the relationship.
I've heard that some Christian single ladies, if they meet a man outside of their church....if the guy asks them out...she makes it policy to make their first date at church...as opposed to dinner or coffee or luch.
However, isn't this a little too soon though?
I've heard that some Christian single ladies, if they meet a man outside of their church....if the guy asks them out...she makes it policy to make their first date at church...as opposed to dinner or coffee or luch.
However, isn't this a little too soon though?
I don't think so. If something is very important to you and a potential dealbreaker issue, it makes sense to clear those hurdles first. Otherwise, what's the point of dating someone? Where's it going to go?
Also, if things go right or wrong, your head space is inappropriate for Church.
I think in US, dating strangers is more common, I still think it is a bad idea to bring the date to Church or Family until you know them very well.
I experience a Stalker before, it is not good if they know where you go.
A stalker that you met at church?
But I learned to keep my date life and personal life as separate.
But one's date life is a part of their personal life, there's no keeping that separate. Unless I'm misunderstanding the statement?
Dates are possibilities not guarantees. You don’t open your life to strangers. You observe, test, and bring them in little by little. That’s how it should be done unless you want a problem.
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