Finding a good Christian boy

[~*Hope*~]

Thats what I am looking for right now. I just broke up with my boyfriend because he didnt want to wait until marriage. He doesnt see a point in marriage. Rawr. lol. Sooo... does anyone know where I could find some good Christian boys in Southern California?

 

[waterbear]

If you just became single, may want to enjoy it for a little while

Churches (esp. youth programs) and Christian fellowships at school would seem like the best bets. I'm in the OC, but I'm a bit of a recluse so I don't know any exacts.

 

[fieldmouse3]

Church is a good place to look for Christians, that's for sure!

 

[LegomasterJC]

Paul says that it is not a good idea to go looking for marriage but to seek God and if you are led to your mate, great but keep God first.
Don't look for guys to be your boyfriend or to be in a "relationship" with. Sure... go to church or youth group and hang out but don't go for guys. Go for God. The Guys who aren't going for girls and are going for God are the ones you are looking for and they will be attracted to the girls who are going for God and not guys.
Make sense? Go for God, get from God. Go for guys... heh what you get from guys isn't as great as what you get from God... especially if you met me where you are (I'm not there) I am nice and all and I go for God not girls but God is still the King when it comes to giving gifts.

 

[~*Hope*~]

lol of course i am going to go for God too. but i want a guy who has the same love for God that i do. you know?

 

[bubblegirl23]

See thread - online dating. Although it's just a start, you never have to be with someone on a first date and know nothing about them

 

[Tranquillity]

Here I am!!! Problem is, I have to find a nice Christian girl. It isn't really happening yet. Heh, my summer was like a soap opera.

 

[SDSUMarcus01]

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[VivDaGurl]

You want my honest answer? Stop looking. It sounds like you're looking for a rebound relationship.

I agree with SDSUMarcus01...

"Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33 (NIV)

I had been all by myself for the past one year and eight months, yet, I do not regret this. I had been too far away from God when I was in an ungodly relationship. Before I want to get someone, I want to seek God's Kingdom first and walk in the Light Of Jesus because I know that God had prepare the best person for me.

To be frank with you, stop looking and seek God's Kingdom first and you'll find the person you desire. All Christians want a good Christian guy to be their life partner and when you are in a relationship, it's very important to be in relationship with a good purpose not just because you want to have someone in your life.

 

[invisiblebabe]

Here I am!!! Problem is, I have to find a nice Christian girl. It isn't really happening yet. Heh, my summer was like a soap opera.

You and me both This entire year has been nothing short of a season on Days of Our Lives for me. Too bad we don't get to sign autographs, huh?

 

[SDSUMarcus01]

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[TriptychR]

Take a little time off. Let things fall where they may. If you go pursuing a relationship again now, you might let whatever feelings from the last one are left get in your way.

 

[renaistre]

Paul says that it is not a good idea to go looking for marriage but to seek God and if you are led to your mate, great but keep God first.
Don't look for guys to be your boyfriend or to be in a "relationship" with. Sure... go to church or youth group and hang out but don't go for guys. Go for God. The Guys who aren't going for girls and are going for God are the ones you are looking for and they will be attracted to the girls who are going for God and not guys.
Make sense? Go for God, get from God. Go for guys... heh what you get from guys isn't as great as what you get from God... especially if you met me where you are (I'm not there) I am nice and all and I go for God not girls but God is still the King when it comes to giving gifts.

I agree with most of the post here, but especially this one. I wouldn't recommend looking for a boyfriend at this point. If you want to just meet some good Christian people, church, Christian groups at school, possibly other church's youth groups if yours is small or non-existant. Actually, I've had a really hard time with this myself. I have come to realize that it is just an other way God is trying to get me to learn to trust him, because he has recently sent me some great friends completely out of the blue, and when I get impatient and try to force things myself, nothing happens.

Reading that back, it sounds like a lecture. Sorry.

I do know a lot of nice, good, Christian boys here in SoCal, but most of them are like me: we aren't interested in having a girlfriend just to have a girlfriend. We are waiting (maybe impatiently, but we're waiting ) until we know it's God's leading. What a dull crowd we are.

BTW, way to go sticking to your principles like that and not giving in to that guy.

 

[Inperfected]

yeah. Take it slow, give your self a relationship break, get into god. and into a christian scene, meet guys as friends, get to know them, then allow it to SLOWLY progress.

"A womans heart should be so close to the heart of god, that a man has to search the heart of god to find it"

 

[KeilCoppes]

True advice from my father:

"Don't fall in love until you can do something about it."

 

[renaistre]

True advice from my father:

"Don't fall in love until you can do something about it."

Excellent advice.

Although on second thought, your father probably meant getting married. In today's world, "doing somthing about it" could be interpreted as much less. What a sad state of affairs.

 

[FaithfulServant]

You will soon find that men, even Christian men, aren't going to fill up that empty space. You need to fill it with the Lord, and if He sees that it will honor Him, he will send you a Christian man. Seek Him first, and you will be given the Kingdom of God.