Find me a way and a reason.

[nuunuu]

One day i looked back on my life and i got worried. I have tried over 7 drugs, had premarital sex, i smoke and i drink, i roleplay, i'm hooked on bodymodifications (like pirecings and tattoos), I'm bisexual...
(and no i am not trolling)
I can't even remember how many laws i have violated; i have stolen, vandalised ect.

But the most worrying thing is i like the way i am. Still, everybody says that i am lost. Please tell me what i should do and whats wrong with me.
I'm only 18

 

[Daisysqueaks]

My heart goes out to you. You say that you looked back on your life and got worried and then you noted that there is something 'wrong' with you. (There is something wrong with all of us.) That would be the Holy Spirit whispering to you that you do have a problem. It's called sin. The sinful nature in all of us makes things appealing, makes us desire them. You can be freed from all of that.
Jesus is the one that can set you free.

 

[sc4s2cg]

You know, Christ can really change your life around. He changed a former murderer's, and now he is a pastor at a church leading Christ's flock. He changed a persecutor of Christians, someone who despised Christians on a high level, and made him a key disciple (It was Paul, formerly known as Saul). He can change you too, all you got to do is follow Him. This is not easy, it never is, but it is possible. I have found Christ through www.settingcaptivesfree.com, a website determined to set Captives to sin free, with the grace of G-d. It is a free website with free courses, and a mentor. I recommend it.

May G-d bless you in your journey!
sc

 

[nuunuu]

i don't even know if the things i have done are wrong and sinful. Should i just stop them all?

 

[Daisysqueaks]

The Bible says that "All haved sinned and fall short of the glory of God." Romans 3:23. As for the things you do, stopping any or all won't make things better. You could be the best behaved person on earth, never have sex with anyone, not drink a drop of alcohol, not even hurt a fly and you still are a sinner. It's a condition we are born with. The wonderful news is Christ will take you no matter what. You don't have quit sinning before you come to him. Click on this link to get more information to help you. http://www.christianforums.com/gospel I'll be praying for you!

 

[JacobsDream]

We do not change then go to God.
We go to God and God changes us.
Get to know God and everything else that you are doing wrong will drop off one by one.
Beleive that Jesus died for you and me, is your Lord and savior and through Him is a life here to bear whatever the day brings and eternal life afterwards.

Lord as she seeks, let her find, you in Jesus name. The evil one is toiling over her, trying to bring negative feelings and thoughts of discouragement but we know that your word superceeds anything we might be feeling or thinking.
No one can save themself but with you, everyting is possible. Come through Lord to the glory of your name.

 

[Tzutchka]

I can honestly tell you the satisfaction and companionship you seek through drugs and your other activities will never come from those things... because what you are truly hungry for is a relationship with your Lord and savior! Go to Him and you will be lifted!!! I am praying for you.

 

[linssue55]

One day i looked back on my life and i got worried. I have tried over 7 drugs, had premarital sex, i smoke and i drink, i roleplay, i'm hooked on bodymodifications (like pirecings and tattoos), I'm bisexual...
(and no i am not trolling)
I can't even remember how many laws i have violated; i have stolen, vandalised ect.

But the most worrying thing is i like the way i am. Still, everybody says that i am lost. Please tell me what i should do and whats wrong with me.
I'm only 18

The 3 Arrogance Skills

Self Absorption, Self Justification, Self Deception.......

 

[TexasGirl06]

One day i looked back on my life and i got worried. I have tried over 7 drugs, had premarital sex, i smoke and i drink, i roleplay, i'm hooked on bodymodifications (like pirecings and tattoos), I'm bisexual...
(and no i am not trolling)
I can't even remember how many laws i have violated; i have stolen, vandalised ect.

But the most worrying thing is i like the way i am. Still, everybody says that i am lost. Please tell me what i should do and whats wrong with me.
I'm only 18

Hey nuunuu....

Can you feel the hole in your life?
You know...the one that you keep trying to fill...with sex, drugs, piercing, breaking the law, etc....
Yeah...we've all had that hole.
We all try to put different things into that hole...to fill it up. The hole made us feel like we were somewhat empty and needed to stuff something into it.

We were created ...with that hole.
Because of the original sin in the Garden (Adam and Eve sinning)...we inherited the hole when we were born.

And...the one who created us has provided the perfect thing for us to put into that hole.

It's God, himself.

We need him.

Whether we realize it or not....we need God.

We can spend our entire life....stuffing that hole, but it will only be a very temporary fix...and most all of the time the fixes are dangerous to us.

No matter....nothing works, except for the perfect hole patcher...God.

When we sin: an ugly thought or murder...and everything in between....
We have separated ourselves from God.
God says that because we sin, we will die.

To die: To go to hell when we leave this earth.

But, our loving God....loves us to much to see us go to Hell. He will provide a way for us to be with Him in Heaven.

He will punish the sin.
He will send His son Jesus.
Jesus is perfect and will not sin.
However, he will be killed on the cross, as He takes the punishment for the sin that nuunuu has done.

Will nuunuu accept what Jesus has done on the cross for him? Does nuunuu see that Jesus has died for him/her? The punishment has been placed on Jesus.

So, nuunuu...... our loving God gives you a choice.
You can continue and experience a painful life here on earth and then continue on to eternal life in Hell. Or, you can look at your sin, bring it to God, and then ask God to forgive you for the sin. Tell Him you are sorry.

God is in the business of forgiving sins. He is pleased to do it, but you have to go to him. Right here, right now....in your house. Drop to your knees and call out to him. No fancy words needed. He will see what you are wanting in your heart. He will respond.

There are many folks here who care about you, nuunuu. We have all been where you are. Broken. Confused. Hurting. Wanting something different.

There is a way out. The answer is Jesus.
God freely gives the choice to nuunuu.

You are still young nuunuu.
I was about 26 years old before I realized that my hole stuffing was not working.

Be Blessed, my friend. I will pray for you.

 

[GeorgeB]

One day i looked back on my life and i got worried. I have tried over 7 drugs, had premarital sex, i smoke and i drink, i roleplay, i'm hooked on bodymodifications (like pirecings and tattoos), I'm bisexual...
(and no i am not trolling)
I can't even remember how many laws i have violated; i have stolen, vandalised ect.

But the most worrying thing is i like the way i am. Still, everybody says that i am lost. Please tell me what i should do and whats wrong with me.
I'm only 18

There is something wrong in all of us, that we all want to change. You have taken the first most important step and realizing that you have a problem. Now what you need to do is find ways to correct the problems that you have. Is there maybe someone you can speak with that you feel comfortable with. I dont just mean a friend or family member. I am talking about someone in the Christian world. Someone who is really into the Lord, that can be of some guiding light to you in your hour of darkness?

I will be keeping you in my prayers. If you need to talk, I am always here.

 

[heron]

Many of the things you're doing are activities that people justify. So calling them sin---I would set aside the Sin word temporarily, and look at end results.

1. Are you treating your friends well while you are using?
2. Will your activities eventually compromise your functionality in middle age-- brain cells, nervous system, overall health...
3. Will future health problems require others to take care of you?
4. Are you harming people by your actions?
5. Have you thought about who is impacted when you steal? Have any sales clerks lost their jobs, small business owners lost income, family members lost valuables?

Sin is not just a vague set of rules that some big being is requiring of people. Sin relates to the community.

 

[heron]

Oh yeah, then realize that God is willing to give you a fresh start at any point. He has offered that to all of us, without limit.

 

[tapero]

One day i looked back on my life and i got worried. I have tried over 7 drugs, had premarital sex, i smoke and i drink, i roleplay, i'm hooked on bodymodifications (like pirecings and tattoos), I'm bisexual...
(and no i am not trolling)
I can't even remember how many laws i have violated; i have stolen, vandalised ect.

But the most worrying thing is i like the way i am. Still, everybody says that i am lost. Please tell me what i should do and whats wrong with me.
I'm only 18

Hi, You like the way you are, but everyone says you are lost. You are probably a kind person, and are doing things that you know are wrong. I sawyour other post and yes you can stop doing bad things, but without Christ, you are only cleaning the outside. God wants to change youthrough and through. If you believe in your heart that Jesus is Lord, and that God raised him from the dead youwill be saved.

I pray for you that you would decide what you want to do. Lord please help her as she thinks of drawing near to you, of calling you her savior and Lord. Dear Jesus protect her while she does not know what she is doing. In Jesus name I pray. Amen

 

[jehovahway]

One day i looked back on my life and i got worried. I have tried over 7 drugs, had premarital sex, i smoke and i drink, i roleplay, i'm hooked on bodymodifications (like pirecings and tattoos), I'm bisexual...
(and no i am not trolling)
I can't even remember how many laws i have violated; i have stolen, vandalised ect.

But the most worrying thing is i like the way i am. Still, everybody says that i am lost. Please tell me what i should do and whats wrong with me.
I'm only 18

What is wrong with you is the same thing that is wrong with the whole world.
Satan has you in a relationship with him.your his girl.
Thats why the holy bible teaches that before we come to god our Father is the devil he controls our life till a christian comes along that can break us lose from satans control.
Ask THE MIGHTY GOD JEHOVAH IS HIS NAME ,TO DRAW YOU INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH KING JESUS CHRIST.

 

[heron]

When my friends were 18 and doing destructive things, I just thought of it as temporary choices they were making. But the years went on, and these people had worn faces and hoarse voices and legal records that kept them from advancing. They still laughed about the same things, which weren't funny any more. ..most were just a reflection of how their lives had stood still while their friends' moved on.
.

 

[Mr.Cheese]

There's nothing wrong with liking who you are. Jesus doesn't want to turn you into someone you hate. In fact, as I grow, I become more myself than ever before. You like body modification? No problem. There's nothing wrong with that. Jesus is interested in making you a whole person. Self-destructive and self-defeating behaviors and attitudes are what I see as things that need to change.
You are you. God made you. There is no one else like you on earth. God did not make you in order to run you through the cookie cutter to be like everyone else. He made you unique. It is no mistake that you fit in well with subcultures. I don't think God would want to change that. I believe he would like to heal you and make you whole in order that you can love and help the broken people around you.

 

[Starr SDA Living Word]

 

[josuabrown]

The Bible says "if we confess our sins He (meaning Christ) is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us of all unrighteousness"

 

[Dr. Holly]

One day i looked back on my life and i got worried. I have tried over 7 drugs, had premarital sex, i smoke and i drink, i roleplay, i'm hooked on bodymodifications (like pirecings and tattoos), I'm bisexual...
(and no i am not trolling)
I can't even remember how many laws i have violated; i have stolen, vandalised ect.

But the most worrying thing is i like the way i am. Still, everybody says that i am lost. Please tell me what i should do and whats wrong with me.
I'm only 18

Hi nuunuu,

I just want you to know that there is nothing wrong with WHO you are. Every single one of us (as others have mentioned) have our issues and weak points. From birth, we are all seeking to be loved and accepted. The problem with drugs, alcohol, sex, etc. is that it may give you a false sense of contentment for a little while but it never lasts. The only lasting peace comes from Jesus and from Him alone. That void you feel (I'm assuming you do) is because you haven't yet discovered just how much He loves you.

I am praying for you, and that the Lord reveals Himself to you and shows you just how precious you are. May you know His love this day and accept Jesus in to your heart as the center of your life. God bless you, precious sister.