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I guess that depends where you are.. There are apperntly some medical reasons for male circumcision..thirstforknowledge said:It's hard to say. It seems barbaric to me, but I'm in a different culture.
At the same time, you should see how other cultures think we are barbaric for circumcising our males.
Wiffey said:There is a world of difference between male and female circumcision. Male circumcision is done in a hospital (now it is usually done a day after birth, with anesthetics) and does not impair male sexual functioning as an adult.
Female circumcision is done without anesthesia, often with crude, unsterilized tools. It is horrifically painful, and dangerous as there is great risk of infection. Its purpose is to render females unable to derive physical pleasure from sex, and thereby ensure chastity. Depending on the culture where it is done, it is done in early childhood to adolescence...the female is fully awake and sensate while she is being tortured and mutilated. Depending on the culture, either the [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] is removed , or, in more extreme cases, the entire external female genitalia, then the remaining opening is sewn up. A small hole is left for bodily fluids to pass. When the girl is married the husband opens the area with a knife on their wedding night. For these women, sex will always be painful, and the tearing of scar tissue during childbirth sometimes leads to infection and death.
There are some cultural practices which are unjustifiable. When children are being mutilated against their will, for no purpose other than to cripple a basic human function (sex), we cannot sit idly by. This is unspeakably evil.
kopilo said:I guess that depends where you are.. There are apperntly some medical reasons for male circumcision..
here are some stats: http://www.cirp.org/library/statistics/
Unless you are jewish I would find it hard to claim it is something cultural (well in Australia, Canada and UK) when the rate of recorded circumsions seems to be around 12%..
Even when it is done with sterilised medical equipement.. it is still horrific enough for someone to lose their lunch over.Wiffey said:Female circumcision is done without anesthesia, often with crude, unsterilized tools. It is horrifically painful, and dangerous as there is great risk of infection.
Of course, you are correct. But the great and wonderful government in America awards hardly any rights to minors. Heck, we had to go to the Supreme Court to get Freedom of Speech insured. It seems like we get the bare minimum(sometimes not even that) in terms of rights.FWIW, although I do see a difference between male & female circumcision, I still think that any uneeded elective surgical procedure (even with anesthesia and the best possible medical care) should not be done without the consent of the person on whom the procedure is being done. I'd prefer to just wait and let the child decide when they are old enough to know what they are doing and give consent.
I still believe there can be NO justification for mutilating a child (even if the procedure was done in the hospital with anesthesia). It may not be politically correct to say that this "cultural practice" should be abolished, but to me PC ends when you cross the line and excuse violence against children and mutilating people. If adults decide for themselves (without irresistible societal pressure) to have this cultural practice done to themselves once they are old enough to grant full informed consent...then as repugnant as I find the practice, it is their business. But no adult, not even a parent, IMO, has the right to decide to irreversibly mutilate any child.
Pike said:Do you think it is torture or cultural/??
my argument:
http://www.breakthesilence.ca/downloads/culture/December%2005/Clitoritdectomy.htm
There is no real preventitive need for it to be done. If you practice good hygeine there is no reason to have a male circumsicion.As for male circumcision, a lot of young men have to have it done in their teens/early twenties if it wasn't done in infancy. This happened to my fiance and it was very painful for him. So maybe it's best to do it as a preventitive measure.
Wiffey said:There are some cultural practices which are unjustifiable. When children are being mutilated against their will, for no purpose other than to cripple a basic human function (sex), we cannot sit idly by. This is unspeakably evil.
Marie O'S said:I came very close to having a mild form of this operation performed to 'keep me pure', and my sister did actually have to undergo it. I think it's wrong to assume it only happens in Africa.
As for male circumcision, a lot of young men have to have it done in their teens/early twenties if it wasn't done in infancy. This happened to my fiance and it was very painful for him. So maybe it's best to do it as a preventitive measure.
cobaltburrito said:There is no real preventitive need for it to be done. If you practice good hygeine there is no reason to have a male circumsicion.