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Yeah so the last couple of days have opened up a hell hole out of nowhere. Now I don't know If I am still saved or not. And someone telling me that I am saved does not make me saved. I need to hear it from God and God alone. Can't He just come out tell me I haven't committed the unpardonable sin? Right now I am having anger issues. Something I usually don't struggle with, but now I can not control it. Losing complete self control it seems. I'm snapping at people and wanting to withdraw. Even having suicide ideation, which is something I never had before. Is this a result of me losing God? Won't He come and fix my confusion. I feel like I've slipped into a hellish hole and don't know what to do guys.
 

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if you had committed the unpardonable sin... you wouldnt be on here searching.... You are wanting assurance(believe me i KNOW , as i need it too), but it isnt because you have committed some sin that He cant forgive you of.... He KNOWS your heart and your struggles.... and He says to LEAN NOT UNTO YOUR OWN UNDERSTANDING..... thats what i cling to... If you had lost God, you wouldnt care would you? but the very fact that you are so concerned, tells me that you havent..... people on here have given me great advice..... keep coming on here and talking....getting others perspectives helps and we are all fighting a battle in our minds.... BUT JESUS HAS OUR SOULS.... and we have to believe our soul is safe no matter what tricks our minds are playing.....i know its super hard to seperate it... i work on it everyday....

praying for you......

p.j.
 
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TheDeepblue,
I am so sorry to hear that you are struggling so today. I am praying for you. I always remember what my pastor says:
If you are afraid that you have committed the unpardonable sin than you haven't committed it. People who commit the unpardonable sin don't care and aren't worried about it.
I hope this helps. Don't give up my friend!!
-Mandy :)
 
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Deepblue, these posters are correct. If you committed the unpardonable sin, you
wouldn't care. You'd be fine with that. Hopelessly doomed souls don't come looking
for help on Christian websites.

Sometimes I find it helps to spend time with other people, talking or they can just be there. Do you have any trusted Christians in your life who you can spend some time with?
 
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picassoui

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Deepblue, these posters are correct. If you committed the unpardonable sin, you
wouldn't care. You'd be fine with that. Hopelessly doomed souls don't come looking
for help on Christian websites.

Sometimes I find it helps to spend time with other people, talking or they can just be there. Do you have any trusted Christians in your life who you can spend some time with?


DEEP BLUE I UNDERSTAND MY GOD UNDERSTAND ....
 
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Yeah so the last couple of days have opened up a hell hole out of nowhere. Now I don't know If I am still saved or not. And someone telling me that I am saved does not make me saved. I need to hear it from God and God alone.

In Gods Word He has told you everything on how to be saved and how a person can fall into condemnation. If God was to tell you by any other means of His Word, and He had to reassure you, it wouldnt be Faith would it? God wants you to trust His Word, His promise and that is the Bible.

Can't He just come out tell me I haven't committed the unpardonable sin?

But He has told you already. What you want is reassurance.

Right now I am having anger issues. Something I usually don't struggle with, but now I can not control it.

That is understandable when we go through trials and all kinds of harships when we feel something is out of our control we get angry ;)

Hang in there :hug:
 
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Yeah so the last couple of days have opened up a hell hole out of nowhere. Now I don't know If I am still saved or not. And someone telling me that I am saved does not make me saved. I need to hear it from God and God alone. Can't He just come out tell me I haven't committed the unpardonable sin? Right now I am having anger issues. Something I usually don't struggle with, but now I can not control it. Losing complete self control it seems. I'm snapping at people and wanting to withdraw. Even having suicide ideation, which is something I never had before. Is this a result of me losing God? Won't He come and fix my confusion. I feel like I've slipped into a hellish hole and don't know what to do guys.
Rom. 10:9, 10

Eph. 4:26 Being angry may win a moment, but it is not to be allowed to win a day.

Dan. 9:23; 1 Kings 19:11, 12; Matt. 6:33; Luke 11:5-10

Rom. 8:38, 39 says neither death nor life

That is understandable when we go through trials and all kinds of harships when we feel something is out of our control we get angry ;)
James 1:19, 20 :)
 
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