Feeling like dirt

[nathan57]

My band has a show this Thursday and one if the bands on the bill has a member who is an in at sony. Thats great and all but the show is at a strip club. When we first got the gig I was stoked but everyday since we were given the opportunity I have been feeling more and more lousy about the whole thing. I cant pull out now because it is too late.

I do not plan on paying strippers for anything, nor will I try to get any sort of favors from them but I still feel bad about this. I used to teach sunday school and not that I lost my connection with the Lord or anything but I feel as if I have been slipping

 

[UnitynLove]

My band has a show this Thursday and one if the bands on the bill has a member who is an in at sony. Thats great and all but the show is at a strip club. When we first got the gig I was stoked but everyday since we were given the opportunity I have been feeling more and more lousy about the whole thing. I cant pull out now because it is too late.

I do not plan on paying strippers for anything, nor will I try to get any sort of favors from them but I still feel bad about this. I used to teach sunday school and not that I lost my connection with the Lord or anything but I feel as if I have been slipping

Maybe its time that you pull out of this since its affecting your faith and stuff. Nothing is ever worth that. Ask the Lord to place you somewhere where it is less distracting and will cause less of a hassle with your beliefs.

 

[Johnnz]

Maybe you need to talk with the others and make your views about such a place known. Then you can all come to some decision. That may mean the end of the band for you, they may agree to replace you in any similar situation, or they all may decide against playing in places like that.

John
NZ

 

[unkern]

Negatory on the show

 

[Mr.Cheese]

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[myanchor]

Yeah, but Mr. Cheese, though Jesus associated with the outcasts, it takes a special kind of power to be around gorgeous scantily clad or naked women and not be going crazy, even if you are a Christian.

 

[Johnnz]

No, not power. Just a healthy set of values. I have spoken with strippers. I met the person, not the body. Far more interesting.

John
NZ

 

[nathan57]

Thanks for the replies guys. I didnt read this until after the show happened because I didnt think anyone would reply. I didnt get a lap dance or any of that, it was an interesting night but I dont know how quickly Ill sign up for it again. Probably the most over rated establishment I have ever been too though

 

[andreha]

Hey Nathan. I'm glad you're not in that tight position anymore.