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HOLYROLLER71

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I've been struggeling with an ED for 21 years.I'm trying so hard to change my ways.My counsler thinks that I've had it for so long that I won't be able to change.It's really hard for me I eat very little,she wanted me to eat more which I did try,I put on weight and fliped out.I'm not to skinny I'm about 50 pounds overweight.I can't stand the way my body feels psychically,it makes me sick and I can't stand how I look.I hate looking at myself.I'm trying to stop abbusing laxatives and diuretics.I've damaged my body in so many ways.The newest thing now is from the diuretic abbuse my heart beats 122 at rest.I've lost most of my teeth,hair started falling out,vitamin B and folic acid deficiant.almost anemic with getting V-B12 shots monthly.If there is anyone who just started having problems with an ED please get help early don't wait!!I always thought it won't happen to me,and even tho I know how bad my health is I can't seem to stop what I'm doing.I pray someday I will be happy with my body and see my self as Christ sees me.
 

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I, too, am suffering physically because of my past ED behavior. You are so right we must get help for these things. I don't agree with your counselor- I think you can change. I know you can. Most importantly, God knows you can. There is always hope and He knows your struggle and longs to comfort you. I can tell you are beautiful. I don't need to see a picture. You have a beautiful heart. God knows this and knows that you are truly beautiful. You are in my prayers:groupray:
 
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don't let a doctor sentance you to pain. your Father promises that no temptation....

No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it. 1 Corinthians 10:13

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i too, know that the consequences of ED are serious and permanate sometimes. but you don't need to think you are sentanced. healing spiritually conquers everything. :hug: seek and ye shall find. ask, and it shall be given....

He saved us, not because of the good things we did, but because of his mercy. He washed away our sins and gave us a new life through the Holy Spirit. Titus 3:5

I am focusing all my energies on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead. Philippians 3:13

And everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved. Acts 2:21
 
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It is never too late to recover!

I strongly suggest you look at visiting a different counsellor - in my opinion, anybody who tells you that you can't get better is not a help at all - in fact, that's the opposite of what you need right now!

We are here to listen to you, help you and try to keep you on track. It is never too late. I am praying for you. :prayer:
 
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goldenviolet said:
No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it. 1 Corinthians 10:13

that is a great reminder!:amen:
 
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