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feel like doing absoltultely nothing

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Just been down. Just sick and tired of the mundane. how are some people so happy, and so joyful? I dont understand. and other people perfer those compared to those who are downcast! we can't help ourselves. i'm in this rut, spiritually and emotionally. I am just tired. I think my life just stopped. i think this aligns with my entries beforehand. i can't even talk to guys. i am a pathetic loser. tell me about it. i am tired. I need hope. i need a new beginning. but it just seems so hard. why is it so hard? what could i do with friends who are struggling. i am tired. I don't know where to go anymore. help.
 

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I just want to say : LOVE yourself first, before people can love you.

If you always complain, nobody would want to come near you. If you are always sad, nobody will dare to come near you. Logically - who wants to be with an unhappy person all the time? Everybody wants to be happy!! So if i were you, i'll love myself, go do some exercise, make myself look as pretty as possible, buy some make ups and skincare, cut my hair, and ready to go party!!

People loves to hang out with happy-go-lucky people. They love to stick with this kind of people because they themselves want to be happy all the time! Do you want to stick with a sad friend when you are happy yourself?? ALL the time??

Go to church, make some friends, do something you like to lift up your mood!

Be Happy!! Smile!! Look in the mirror and say "I CAN DO IT!"
 
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soyness said:
Just been down. Just sick and tired of the mundane. how are some people so happy, and so joyful? I dont understand. and other people perfer those compared to those who are downcast! we can't help ourselves. i'm in this rut, spiritually and emotionally. I am just tired. I think my life just stopped. i think this aligns with my entries beforehand. i can't even talk to guys. i am a pathetic loser. tell me about it. i am tired. I need hope. i need a new beginning. but it just seems so hard. why is it so hard? what could i do with friends who are struggling. i am tired. I don't know where to go anymore. help.

I know what you mean. i wonder how other people are happy...lately what I have been thinking is that I don't belong here...in H.S. I had my game face on. One day I broke down in school and I was so ashamed that I was crying in front of people...:cry: What helps me is music, my writing, my art, so I can break up the funk.
 
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