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Fears....

CrystalBrooke

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I have a few:

*spiders: don't know how or why it started...they just freak me out really bad
*Clowns: my mom let me watch "It" when I was little and I can't get that image of him in the drain thing out of my head...
*rejection: I don't know why, but I associate rejection with failure and I don't want to fail...I also don't like to be told "no"
*loosing a loved one (especially my daughter): I think this one is obvious
 
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Hrmm, fears... I'm not a big fan, but I have them none the less

My mom dying: she doesn't know the Lord yet, and she doesn't take care of herself... it scares the bejeezes out of me to think that she could die. Thankfully God has promised me that she will know Him before she dies and I'm starting to see His plan
Throwing up: I'm sure no one really enjoys throwing up, but my body goes into shock when I throw up and it's just not a fun place to be when you don't have any control over your body

On a lighter note, I used to be afraid of the inside of the toilet tank, but I had to move past that fear this summer because of all the toilets I needed to fix as a camp counselor!
 
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heights....almost to the point where I lose the ability to move. If there is a ledge I cant bring myself to peer over it without being attached to something.
Same here, except with one difference: I only feel this fear when I KNOW I am not secured or safe at that height. In an airplane or a roller coaster I'm fine, but standing on a building ledge would bring that fear and make me dizzy, almost. LOL, sometimes when I look up at a clear blue sky really fast I get that feeling, lol.
 
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What's your biggest fears? I want to know what fears this age group has, you know. Why is it your biggest fear? How did you become afraid in the first place?

Someone mentioned these and I would have to agree:

~rejection: I don't know why, but I associate rejection with failure and I don't want to fail (So true!)
~losing a loved one: This has already happened and will continue to happen as death is a natural aspect of life. I just can't imagine my life without a whole bunch of people. I try to maintain relationships that are extremely important to me, but there is always a fear that maybe they will move on...and forget about my cankles.


I'd also include:

~dying alone: I'm not afraid of how I will die, nor do I know how I will. But, I fear being by myself and not having anyone to hold my hand or give me one last embrace before I pass away.

~centipedes (See also: earwigs): I hate them...I absolutely hate them, I'm sorry. I fear anything that's a badrillion times smaller than I am, things that bite and can move so much more faster than I can. By the time you see one, it's already too late. It's headed straight for your cankles.

~debt: It would appear that this will be in my future for as far as I can see and I can't stand that. School loans, mortgages...it just never ends.

~never marrying (or finding someone quality who piques my interest juust so): I can always adopt children which is something I've been wanting to do for almost ten years now. I can get myself situated so as to be able to support my children. However, it would be so much better for me to have a partner to share my life with.

~another retired actor/gameshow host situation: self-explanatory
 
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I suppose since everyone else gave their true fears, i could give mine...

Losing family - Mainly my sisters. I would die for my 3 sisters without hesitation. The thought of me not being there to protect them at all times gets me sometimes.

Making Mistakes - I fear that a mistake i make could cause major damage. It could be something very simple (and/or minor) but i often think about the consequences even if they are not very plausible.

Humans - Yes, i am afraid of you silly humans. Not so much like "he/she could beat me up" or fear of interaction. Its more because... humans are stupid. Yea... i said it. We know so much that we think we know it all yet... we have so many simple things that are killing us. Stuff like wars, racism, poverty, etc. It shouldnt be this way...
 
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I'm so scared of drowning or suffocating. To the extent that I wont sleep under the covers in bed! I dont know why, it's just I hate the feeling when I'm not able to breath - to die like that well.... URGH! I won't watch an underwater scene either because of this fact... and Kill Bill when she is buried alive -ARGH!

That and snakes and garden gnomes! Oh my! I'm panicking!

Erica
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