Fear

[Shazamataz]

I have a fear of losing my beautiful man, Paul. I know I need to lay it at God's feet, but I'm struggling so much with that. Its becoming a hinderance to our relationship.. cos I find myself unable to just focus on the NOW, which is with him. I keep worrying about the future and "what if". I KNOW that God's in control and that I shouldn't worry about it cos God's got it all figured out already. But I just can't shake the fear! I have no reason to fear! I keep wondering if Satan keeps bringing up the fear as a way of creating chaos... I'm not sure. But I NEED to get rid of it!!!! Please help...

 

[TravellingGrace]

I totally understand, and you're not alone in feeling that way. My best friend was a complete wreck at certain points in her relationship with her current bf, because she was scared she wouldn't be able to be in a relationship any longer than any of the other ones she had been in, or that he would dump her... she really had to pray about it and then she eventually got over the fear...

For me, I think it's a fear in the back of my mind that I'll do something to screw up my relationship... but I need to trust my bf, and know that he's not going to dump me for any stupid reason... we entered into this relationship for a purpose, and silly little quirks aren't going to hinder it...

so just keep laying it at the foot of the cross, and continually ask God to take the fear away from you, since it is not of Him. I hope that helps...

 

[princessellie]

try not to let the enemy anywhere near you and your life, do not doubt gods power to make things work because as soon as you do the enem will push his way in and make a mess of everything