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<blockquote data-quote="mindfulzen" data-source="post: 76151831" data-attributes="member: 436821"><p>I am not a parent, so was reluctant to advice you when others did, but this seems a big issue for you, so I do. Why does it trouble you, that your father have urges and fantasies? What he views is make belief, very much like you were as a kid while playing around, does not mean he act that way. When married people have been together for a long time, they need fantasies, to yearn for eachother again, and if thee is just the same old routine, people go bored, so they make a little fantasy to do romance together with the one they love. And sometimes, adults who are married, are ashamed to tell their spouse their fantasies to their spouse, just like a little 13 year old boy who is scared of asking a girl if she wants to go steady. It is not real, and telling your mom, will get him into a bad situation, and create a fight between your parents. He might get bad feelings after that and blame you, not good for either of you. And consider that your parents mayby have agreed that this is OK, and they love eachother but use makebelief to get into eachother romantically, because they are just human, get bored, and and mayby are less attractive than when they met eachother. If that is the case, you are just creating a situation for them as parents, over noting, that they have not told to you, because you are their child and they shield you. Which is most likely. Unless you find the answer here, I highly recommend you ask a priest, or him first, or perhaps an aunt you confide in, that would be the best. His sister. That way, you get an adult perspective, you do not put him in any position, you do not get in a situation, and you get explained how it is, as best you can get, since you cannot get full truth as a child, about the adult world, because that is how parenting is.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mindfulzen, post: 76151831, member: 436821"] I am not a parent, so was reluctant to advice you when others did, but this seems a big issue for you, so I do. Why does it trouble you, that your father have urges and fantasies? What he views is make belief, very much like you were as a kid while playing around, does not mean he act that way. When married people have been together for a long time, they need fantasies, to yearn for eachother again, and if thee is just the same old routine, people go bored, so they make a little fantasy to do romance together with the one they love. And sometimes, adults who are married, are ashamed to tell their spouse their fantasies to their spouse, just like a little 13 year old boy who is scared of asking a girl if she wants to go steady. It is not real, and telling your mom, will get him into a bad situation, and create a fight between your parents. He might get bad feelings after that and blame you, not good for either of you. And consider that your parents mayby have agreed that this is OK, and they love eachother but use makebelief to get into eachother romantically, because they are just human, get bored, and and mayby are less attractive than when they met eachother. If that is the case, you are just creating a situation for them as parents, over noting, that they have not told to you, because you are their child and they shield you. Which is most likely. Unless you find the answer here, I highly recommend you ask a priest, or him first, or perhaps an aunt you confide in, that would be the best. His sister. That way, you get an adult perspective, you do not put him in any position, you do not get in a situation, and you get explained how it is, as best you can get, since you cannot get full truth as a child, about the adult world, because that is how parenting is. [/QUOTE]
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