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Explain me this please. PLEASE

Ivan5123

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hello all sorry for bad english
something happend to me and i dont know what should i do now i dont have motivation to live anymore.
there was this girl that i liked allot since i was 15 (I will be 19 in august)

Between september and december of 2014 i was in big depresion becouse of acne and problems with speach i couldnt pronaunce some leathers right i still cant.
At that time i was seriously consider suicide but i was affraid to do it.

So i told to god: look god i dont whant to live here anymore becouse im ashamed of the way i talk and i will go to some cave and i will pray and do your will and all that. and i will not live on this place or like this anymore.

After that i told him god if you whant me to stay here please give me a reason in next 7 days Becouse i had scolarship and didnt whant my parents to return money if i go and i knew that my life will be over at this place and i could newer come back. --------------december 2014

And then as the week went by something hapend that same girl i liked posted something on facebook: God has a plan for you....

i didnt hoped to be her becouse i knew that i couldnt get her that i wasnt god enough for her but somewere in back of my mind i almost always tought abouth her

but when i saw i couldnt belive it i was so happy i newer felt that way before i didnt thaught that it wil be anithyng with that girl and there she was. and at this time worst depresion of my life stoped just like that

that hapend in december 2014 in january 16 2015 i stoped mastrubating for about 150 to 200 days and she was the only girl i tought about
but in june i started mastrubating again i dont know why probably becouse i still had problems with talking

in june 2015 i mastrubated about 2 times in week in september got alot worse i was about 7 times a week and since january 2016 its almost 2 or 3 times a day and i knew i should stop it and all but i DIDNT AND NOW SOMETHING HAPEND I DONT KNOW WHAT SHOULD I DO

ABOUT 2 WEEKS AGO THAT GIRL GOT BOYFRIEND AND I REALI HAWE NO IDEA WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW CAN SOMEONE PLEAS HELP ME I KNOW THAT THIS IS MY FAULT BUT I CANT IMAGINE HER WITH SOMEON ELSE THE REASON I DIDNT TALK TO HER OR DO ANY MOVE IS THAT IM REALY SHY AND I STIL CANT TALK RIGHT

WHAT SHOULD I DO ??????

DO YOU THINK THAT IM CRAZY BECOUSE I CAN SE IT NOW AND IT SEEMS LIKE CRAZY GUY WRITED THIS
DO YOU THINK THAT I SHOULD GET MENTAL HELP
 
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First of all, brother. I am praying for you right now. At this very second. I know what it feels like to be in love, to be extremely jealous, even masturbation is something i still struggle with. I guarantee you are not alone in this pain. God is out there, I guarantee it. Id like to explain a few things about God, and how he works.

God is very, very generous. Almost anything that you ask of him, in harmony with his will, will be given to you. There are two problems with this: a) God does not always work in plain sight. b) we have to have faith that he will help us. Now, both of these are pretty obvious, but I think the fact that we cannot always comprehend these fundamental principles is key. When you pray to him, youve been humble in asking for his help, and may the love of Christ be with you for that. But something you should try in your prayers, is really believing with your whole heart, and your whole mind, and your whole soul that he will answer your prayers. Then, just wait and watch. I assure you, the beauty of an answered prayer is so, so amazing to see. Just trust in God, brother.

Don't feel discouraged about your appearance, or the fact that you cannot pronounce certain words correctly. That doesnt make you any less of a man. What makes you less of a man is when you walk away from Christ. Let him lift you up. I dont want you to think that I dont understand where youve been, brother. But Christs love is unconditional. Maybe this girl and you will work out, maybe you wont. But the one person who can satisfy the aching for a closeness to someone is Christ. In due time, you will find someone that is perfect for you. I have asked God for girls, for love, for all of it so many times. And I have confidence that he will answer those prayers. But in HIS time. Now, in my life, what I must do is lift up others. Serve others. And everything else will follow. One scripture in the Bible at Matthew 6:33 says :"But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you." Focus on the love of Christ, and HIS purpose, for that is what will give you a true sense of purpose and comfort I think it is that you ache for. And then, I personally guarantee through the undeserved love of our Lord in complete faith, that he will give freely from the palm of his hand.

May the love of Christ be with you,
~Alec
 
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