In Acts 18:18, Paul took the vow and it does not say anything about him being forced to take it. He was not taking the vow in Acts 21:20-24, but was on his way to do the good deed of paying for the expenses of others who had taken the vow.
No, he was to be purified as they were and he was being forced. The vow in Acts 18 is something completely different.
It says that Paul continued to live in obedience to the law and at the direction of James he took steps to disprove the rumor that he had taught against keeping the law.
Paul did not live according to the law. He taught against it as I have already proven.
The Father, Son, and Holy spirit are not in disagreement with each other about what conduct we should have, but rather the law of Christ is exactly the same as the law of the Spirit, which is exactly the same as the law of the Father. The Spirit has the role of leading us in obedience to God's law (Ezekiel 36:26-27) and Jesus said he came only do the the Father's will (John 6:38) and that his teachings were not his own, but that of the Father (John 7:16), so what Jesus commanded and walked out was in complete accordance with what the Father commanded.
And that was to fulfill the law and a new law and covenant to replace the old, just as Paul taught.
The law brings wrath for disobeying it, so it follows that therefore we shouldn't disobey it.
Which is contrary to the rest of the content of your post, especially regarding Paul.
[/QUOTE]so not being under the law doesn't me we are permitted to disobey the law. [/QUOTE]
The old law is gone, and we are not to obey it. We obey the new law of Christ.
There are only two laws. The old Sinai law of sin and death and the "law of Christ" which is the law of the Spirit of life!
1 Corinthians 9:19 For though I be free from all men, yet have I made myself servant unto all, that I might gain the more.
1 Corinthians 9:20
And unto the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might gain the Jews; to them that are under the law, as under the law, that I might gain them that are under the law;
1 Corinthians 9:21 To them that are without law, as without law, (being not without law to God, but
under the law to Christ) that I might gain them that are without law.
1 Corinthians 9:22 To the weak became I as weak, that I might gain the weak: I am made all things to all men, that I might by all means save some.
Here again the two are compared.
James 1:25 But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth therein, he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed.
James 2:12 So speak ye, and so do, as they that shall be judged by the law of liberty.
It is also called "the law of liberty" because it is the opposite of the law of bondage, that same old law of sin and death.
Romans 7:5 For when we were in the flesh, the motions of sins, which were by the law, did work in our members to bring forth fruit unto death.
Romans 7:6 But now we are delivered from the law, that being dead wherein we were held; that we should serve in newness of spirit, and not in the oldness of the letter.
Paul says Christians are delivered from the law, because the old covenant law is dead.
Gill:
are become dead to the law,
and that to them, as in Rom_7:6, and can have no more power over them than a law can have over dead persons,
or a dead abrogated law can have over living ones. They are represented as "dead to sin", and "dead with Christ", Rom_6:2; and here, "dead to the law", as in Gal_2:19, and consequently cannot be under it; are out of the reach of its power and government, since that only has dominion over a man as long as be lives the law is dead to them; it has no power over them, to threaten and terrify them into obedience to it; nor even rigorously to exact it, or command it in a compulsory way; nor is there any need of all this, since believers delight in it after the inward man, and serve it with their minds freely and willingly; the love of Christ, and not the terrors of the law, constrains them to yield a cheerful obedience to it; it has no power to charge and accuse them, curse or condemn them, or minister death unto them, no, not a corporeal one, as a penal evil, and much less an eternal one. And the way and means by which they become dead to the law,
and that to them is,
that ye should be married to another; or "that ye should be to another", or "be another's"; that is, that ye should appear to be so in a just and legal way; for they were another's, they were Christ's before by the Father's gift, and were secretly married to him in the everlasting covenant, before he assumed their nature, and in the body of his flesh bore their sins, satisfied law and justice, paid their debts, and so freed them from the power of the law, its curse and condemnation, or any obligation to punishment; all which was done in consequence of his interest in them, and their marriage relation to him; but here respect is had to their open marriage to him in time, the day of their espousals in conversion; to make way for which,
the law, their former husband, must be dead , and they dead to that, that so their marriage to Christ might appear lawful and justifiable; who is very fitly described by him,
Clarke:
Rom 7:4 -
Wherefore, my brethren - This is a parallel case. You were once under the law of Moses, and were bound by its injunctions; but now ye are become dead to that law -
a modest, inoffensive mode of speech, for, The law, which was once your husband, is dead; God has determined that it shall be no longer in force; so that now, as a woman whose husband is dead is freed from the law of that husband, or from her conjugal vow, and may legally be married to another, so God, who gave the law under which ye have hitherto lived, designed that it should be in force only till the advent of the Messiah; that advent has taken place, the law has consequently ceased, and now ye are called to take on you the yoke of the Gospel, and lay down the yoke of the law; and it is the design of God that you should do so.
Matthew Henry:
I.
Our first marriage was to the law, which, according to the law of marriage,
was to continue only during the life of the law. The law of marriage is binding till the death of one of the parties, no matter which, and no longer. The death of either discharges both.