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I've been searching online trying to find an answer to whether earrings are a sin are not but there seems to be people on both sides of the case.

Personally I had my ears pierced when I was 11, I can't remember exactly why but it was probably because other people had them and I thought they looked nice. Now in the Bible moderation is encouraged so would it be okay as long as I don't have loads of piercings? (I have one in each lobe). I've seen that some people think you shouldn't because our bodies are temples of the Holy spirit and I guess I'm just feeling conflicted because I don't know whether or not I should let them heal.
 

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I've been searching online trying to find an answer to whether earrings are a sin are not but there seems to be people on both sides of the case.

Personally I had my ears pierced when I was 11, I can't remember exactly why but it was probably because other people had them and I thought they looked nice. Now in the Bible moderation is encouraged so would it be okay as long as I don't have loads of piercings? (I have one in each lobe). I've seen that some people think you shouldn't because our bodies are temples of the Holy spirit and I guess I'm just feeling conflicted because I don't know whether or not I should let them heal.

I think, such modest piercings that you have are the last things Jesus is worried about. He's worried about your soul more than anything.
 
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Do everything for the glorification of your Saviour, Lord Jesus Christ.
Dress in a way that is representative of your Christian life in relation to the culture around you.
Your intention dictates whether something is a sin or not: when I had long hair I received compliments about it and it was sometimes a source of vanity for me, so I cut it off. For other Christian women cutting their hair off would feel very sinful. I think it is probably the same thing with earrings and jewellery. Some would say it is nice that you decorate your temple to glorify God. Pray about it and see what the Holy Spirit leads you to. At the end of the day, it is what is in your heart that matters to God.
 
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Hey Hannah, here are a few excerpts in scripture I found about earrings;

Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire. (1 Timothy 2:9)

Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewellery, or the clothing you wear. (1 Peter 3:3)

You shall not make any cuts on your body for the dead or tattoo yourselves: I am the Lord. (Leviticus 19:28)

The Lord said: Because the daughters of Zion are haughty and walk with outstretched necks, glancing wantonly with their eyes, mincing along as they go, tinkling with their feet, therefore the Lord will strike with a scab the heads of the daughters of Zion, and the Lord will lay bare their secret parts. In that day the Lord will take away the finery of the anklets, the headbands, and the crescents; the pendants, the bracelets, and the scarves; the headdresses, the armlets, the sashes, the perfume boxes, and the amulets; ... (Isaiah 3:16-24)

For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride in possessions—is not from the Father but is from the world. (1 John 2:16)

:) edit: these are just ESV. I'm pretty sure KJV/ NKJV are most accurate though
 
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So all the people who wear jewelry and sport tattoos will never see the Kingdom of God? For instance, at our church the band members have some tattoos and a few of them have cross necklaces. One dude looks like Mr. T with a giant gold cross around his neck. lol One of the lead musicians has a cross of a tattoo on the inside of his arm. These are the most genuine, nicest guys I've ever talked too.

I've always been confused about this because I have a strong desire to get a cross tattoo to glorify God and to remind myself every day when I see it to remain faithful and obedient. But then if getting a tattoo or wearing a cross necklace is disobedient then I wouldn't. I think it's more about the "intent" behind those things, not the physical part. God knows the heart so I struggle with this.

Great post BTW!
 
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I've been searching online trying to find an answer to whether earrings are a sin are not but there seems to be people on both sides of the case.

Personally I had my ears pierced when I was 11, I can't remember exactly why but it was probably because other people had them and I thought they looked nice. Now in the Bible moderation is encouraged so would it be okay as long as I don't have loads of piercings? (I have one in each lobe). I've seen that some people think you shouldn't because our bodies are temples of the Holy spirit and I guess I'm just feeling conflicted because I don't know whether or not I should let them heal.

"Sin" is an undefined tool used by humans to control other humans. I have asked for decades for someone to provide me with a comprehensive list of sins. No one ever has.

People (usually church people) create sins out of thin air for the sole purpose of casting them onto others. When others accept that something is a 'sin' they become a slave to the people doing the casting.

My opinion is that when someone is advancing spiritually in their life, they will only be held back by those who use 'sin' as a rope to hold others back. Don't worry about what others charge you with, worry only about moving forward spiritually.
 
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I've been searching online trying to find an answer to whether earrings are a sin are not but there seems to be people on both sides of the case.

Personally I had my ears pierced when I was 11, I can't remember exactly why but it was probably because other people had them and I thought they looked nice. Now in the Bible moderation is encouraged so would it be okay as long as I don't have loads of piercings? (I have one in each lobe). I've seen that some people think you shouldn't because our bodies are temples of the Holy spirit and I guess I'm just feeling conflicted because I don't know whether or not I should let them heal.

Did you ever see that episode of the Simpsons where Ned Flanders is constantly talking to Reverend Lovejoy about all the things he's worried that he's doing wrong? And they're all the littlest, most inconsequential things? This sounds like one of those.

If you want to pierce your ears (or anywhere else), then go for it.
 
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a spiritual person is dying to the old man and living in the new which means you must be a spirit/personality in order to decide if doing such a thing is good or wrong for you. remember that in sin we are dead but if we are given life by God then we are finally becoming what we really are.

the old man is regulated to death with rules due to the nature of sin and it's ability to corrupt every good thing and twist it into some kind of evil.

the spiritual man sees the law from the liberty of spirit and understands some kind of useful wisdom that it symbolically expresses. the one who is spiritual will do what they do because they feel it is good and nice and all they do will be good because they have communion with their Father.... unless they have been lead astray by some sin.

to be so concerned about such a minor thing could be a sign that you are under the bondage of the law and bondage of the fear of punishment for doing something evil. your concern about such a thing might also show that you deeply care what Gods will is for you.

we Christians who seek God are in a process of dying to the old and being born again in God.

Col 3:5-17 (YLT)
Put to death, then, your members that are upon the earth--whoredom, uncleanness, passion, evil desire, and the covetousness, which is idolatry-- because of which things cometh the anger of God upon the sons of the disobedience, in which also ye--ye did walk once, when ye lived in them; but now put off, even ye, the whole--anger, wrath, malice, evil-speaking, filthy talking--out of your mouth. Lie not one to another, having put off the old man with his practices, and having put on the new, which is renewed in regard to knowledge, after the image of Him who did create him; where there is not Greek and Jew, circumcision and uncircumcision, foreigner, Scythian, servant, freeman--but the all and in all--Christ. Put on, therefore, as choice ones of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humble-mindedness, meekness, long-suffering, forbearing one another, and forgiving each other, if any one with any one may have a quarrel, as also the Christ did forgive you--so also ye; and above all these things, have love, which is a bond of the perfection, and let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also ye were called in one body, and become thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing each other, in psalms, and hymns, and spiritual songs, in grace singing in your hearts to the Lord; and all, whatever ye may do in word or in work, do all things in the name of the Lord Jesus--giving thanks to the God and Father, through him.


the "name" of Lord Jesus would be in his way of being by you in him and he in you in spiritual communion, not merely some legalistic confession or law of everything you do with the spoken words "in the name of Jesus I put/take my earrings on/off".

if you can't stop from being a harlot by wearing earrings I suggest you humble yourself and take them off. if you can be a good person with them on then where is the sin in wearing earrings? what if you become so anal that you fall away from God due to you quenching the Spirit of God? don't let that happen!

1Thess 5:16-19 (YLT)
always rejoice ye; continually pray ye; in every thing give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus in regard to you. The Spirit quench not;

Matt 23:23-31 (YLT)
`Woe to you, Scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! because ye give tithe of the mint, and the dill, and the cumin, and did neglect the weightier things of the Law--the judgment, and the kindness, and the faith; these it behoved you to do, and those not to neglect. `Blind guides! who are straining out the gnat, and the camel are swallowing. `Woe to you, Scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! because ye make clean the outside of the cup and the plate, and within they are full of rapine and incontinence. `Blind Pharisee! cleanse first the inside of the cup and the plate, that the outside of them also may become clean. `Woe to you, Scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! because ye are like to whitewashed sepulchres, which outwardly indeed do appear beautiful, and within are full of bones of dead men, and of all uncleanness; so also ye outwardly indeed do appear to men righteous, and within ye are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness. `Woe to you, Scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! because ye build the sepulchres of the prophets, and adorn the tombs of the righteous, and say, If we had been in the days of our fathers, we would not have been partakers with them in the blood of the prophets. So that ye testify to yourselves, that ye are sons of them who did murder the prophets;


to not neglect would mean to have and live in the Holy Spirit rather than the letter of the law.

2Cor 3:6-18 (YLT)
who also made us sufficient to be ministrants of a new covenant, not of letter, but of spirit; for the letter doth kill, and the spirit doth make alive. and if the ministration of the death, in letters, engraved in stones, came in glory, so that the sons of Israel were not able to look stedfastly to the face of Moses, because of the glory of his face--which was being made useless, how shall the ministration of the Spirit not be more in glory? for if the ministration of the condemnation is glory, much more doth the ministration of the righteousness abound in glory; for also even that which hath been glorious, hath not been glorious--in this respect, because of the superior glory; for if that which is being made useless is through glory, much more that which is remaining is in glory. Having, then, such hope, we use much freedom of speech, and are not as Moses, who was putting a vail upon his own face, for the sons of Israel not stedfastly to look to the end of that which is being made useless, but their minds were hardened, for unto this day the same vail at the reading of the Old Covenant doth remain unwithdrawn--which in Christ is being made useless-- but till to-day, when Moses is read, a vail upon their heart doth lie, and whenever they may turn unto the Lord, the vail is taken away. And the Lord is the Spirit; and where the Spirit of the Lord is , there is liberty; and we all, with unvailed face, the glory of the Lord beholding in a mirror, to the same image are being transformed, from glory to glory, even as by the Spirit of the Lord.
 
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I've been searching online trying to find an answer to whether earrings are a sin are not but there seems to be people on both sides of the case.

Personally I had my ears pierced when I was 11, I can't remember exactly why but it was probably because other people had them and I thought they looked nice. Now in the Bible moderation is encouraged so would it be okay as long as I don't have loads of piercings? (I have one in each lobe). I've seen that some people think you shouldn't because our bodies are temples of the Holy spirit and I guess I'm just feeling conflicted because I don't know whether or not I should let them heal.
Hi; in Ezekiel 16.12 the Lord Himself is recorded as giving Zion earrings and even a nose ring.
 
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I think, such modest piercings that you have are the last things Jesus is worried about.
Someone on the forums was saying - probably correctly - that her 2 studs in each earlobe are still a conservative look.
 
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One of the lead musicians has a cross of a tattoo on the inside of his arm. These are the most genuine, nicest guys I've ever talked too.

I've always been confused about this because I have a strong desire to get a cross tattoo to glorify God and to remind myself every day when I see it to remain faithful and obedient. But then if getting a tattoo or wearing a cross necklace is disobedient then I wouldn't.

The passage in Leviticus about not cutting for the dead also seems to say about not trimming one's beard; do preachers shave? I wonder if the context there is Old Testament Jews in the land under the law (the New Testament believer is under grace, with Christian liberty which would especially be defined as offering a lot of scope for Gospel witness options).

In any case, you could always do your ears first; many if not most ppl get ear piercings first before deciding to get ink.
 
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I have zero desire for any piercings anymore. When I was a teeny bopper my mom of all people took me to a local mall where I had my left ear pierced. In the 80's it was all the craze. But, it had to be the left ear because the right ear signified one being homosexual. I can't make this stuff up.
 
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I have zero desire for any piercings anymore. When I was a teeny bopper my mom of all people took me to a local mall where I had my left ear pierced.

Well, actually it was and is often the moms who are behind or involved in the process of young men and boys doing ear piercings. You sound just a bit surprised that your mom arranged for you to have it done. (Often today men and boys do both ears.)

Maybe your mom really liked the idea of it for you? or maybe at least she thoroughly understood that it was often something that young men and boys expect to do.
 
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Probably more so just being spoiled I'd say.
Oh so she maybe thought that for you it would be sort of a fun, manly thing for you to do when you were growing up, so she 'spoiled' you by taking you to have it done, so to speak?

I guess ink is often the next stage, anyway.
 
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Hey Hannah, here are a few excerpts in scripture I found about earrings;

Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire. (1 Timothy 2:9)

Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewellery, or the clothing you wear. (1 Peter 3:3)

You shall not make any cuts on your body for the dead or tattoo yourselves: I am the Lord. (Leviticus 19:28)

The Lord said: Because the daughters of Zion are haughty and walk with outstretched necks, glancing wantonly with their eyes, mincing along as they go, tinkling with their feet, therefore the Lord will strike with a scab the heads of the daughters of Zion, and the Lord will lay bare their secret parts. In that day the Lord will take away the finery of the anklets, the headbands, and the crescents; the pendants, the bracelets, and the scarves; the headdresses, the armlets, the sashes, the perfume boxes, and the amulets; ... (Isaiah 3:16-24)

For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride in possessions—is not from the Father but is from the world. (1 John 2:16)

:) edit: these are just ESV. I'm pretty sure KJV/ NKJV are most accurate though
Hi; these are all good verses; but do you see a complete prohibition of even unbobtrusive ear studs, for example? A lot of Christians would not. A lot of preachers' wives would not, either. (In Ezekiel 16.12 even the Lord Himself gives earrings to Zion symbolically, including a nose ring.)
 
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Hi; these are all good verses; but do you see a complete prohibition of even unbobtrusive ear studs, for example? A lot of Christians would not. A lot of preachers' wives would not, either. (In Ezekiel 16.12 even the Lord Himself gives earrings to Zion symbolically, including a nose ring.)

I'm not passing judgement. I was passing on scripture in relation to piercings as the original poster asked for help and discernment. Answers are found in scripture, it's not up to me to decide. I also had my ears pierced (one time) when I was a teenager. I have so rarely ever worn earrings or any jewellery. When I turned to Christ I prayed on the topic and was answered that wearing ear jewellery does not serve Him. That was my personal experience. My advice is just to always seek the Word and prayer.
 
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I'm not passing judgement. I was passing on scripture in relation to piercings as the original poster asked for help and discernment. Answers are found in scripture, it's not up to me to decide.
I take your point; I just wanted to make the point also that so many Christians would not see a direct answer in Scripture as pointing to a direct prohibition (especially since the Lord Himself is recorded symbolically as giving earrings). Maybe some ppl in small churches do sometimes try to insist that their cultural preferences are the only way to interpret Scripture (which does a disservice to Scripture by using dogmatism where it's not warranted), but there's no point in arguing, I guess.

Blessings.
 
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