Dreams dreamed by 2

[RapcityZ]

This is weird, as far as i can remeber i dreamed the same dream my friend did but in a diffrent way offcourse , see there is this girl i used to like A LOOONG TIME ago a last year in 8th grade (doesnt seem that long after all ) well i liked her alot, since the start of 7th grade and shes been really bad to me, she wanted to beat me up came to the basket ball court just to fight me with her friend, which i just ignored her cuz fighting to me is not the answer and also im the weakest kid in the world never fought in my life cuz i kno imma loose and i wish i was stronger but, and buffer and that will never happend. Anyways, this girl even lied to me she liked me couple times and i belived her, but i kepts liking her more and more and more and i knew i couldnt stop until the day she said she drinks Tiqualla i was like im through her to my self cuz i wanna girl thats clean, never touched any alchol, but that girl i dont wanna give her name out right now so lets just say N, ok now let me get to the dream, i will explain this more if you people like many things happend that i dont think anybody would forgive but i did about tons of times, but god bless her even though she made me feel bad about my self sometimes i still do.

I dreamed that N and me were toghter and i think we were gf, i dont remeber mine but my friend remebers his pretty good, he said he dreamed that he was at our school hanging with my friend, and i wasnt there i was hanging out wit N and me and N were gf.

Does this mean anything that 2 people dream something about this girl about me the 2 who dreamed them was me and this friend of mine.

Thank you for your time.

 

[Follower of Christ]

This is weird, as far as i can remeber i dreamed the same dream my friend did but in a diffrent way offcourse , see there is this girl i used to like A LOOONG TIME ago a last year in 8th grade (doesnt seem that long after all ) well i liked her alot, since the start of 7th grade and shes been really bad to me, she wanted to beat me up came to the basket ball court just to fight me with her friend, which i just ignored her cuz fighting to me is not the answer and also im the weakest kid in the world never fought in my life cuz i kno imma loose and i wish i was stronger but, and buffer and that will never happend. Anyways, this girl even lied to me she liked me couple times and i belived her, but i kepts liking her more and more and more and i knew i couldnt stop until the day she said she drinks Tiqualla i was like im through her to my self cuz i wanna girl thats clean, never touched any alchol, but that girl i dont wanna give her name out right now so lets just say N, ok now let me get to the dream, i will explain this more if you people like many things happend that i dont think anybody would forgive but i did about tons of times, but god bless her even though she made me feel bad about my self sometimes i still do.

I dreamed that N and me were toghter and i think we were gf, i dont remeber mine but my friend remebers his pretty good, he said he dreamed that he was at our school hanging with my friend, and i wasnt there i was hanging out wit N and me and N were gf.

Does this mean anything that 2 people dream something about this girl about me the 2 who dreamed them was me and this friend of mine.

Thank you for your time.

Just to give you a little help.

I was 16 when our Lord gave me some help concerning the girl He had in mind for me.

If I had been smart I would have waited for her.

I didnt have a dream but it was kind of along the same lines.

If this dream was from God then in time He will guide you paths together.

He wont push you toghether with her, but He may be showing you a path since you seem like I was at that age.

Back then i wanted a godly woman but I settled for less and destroyed 17 years of my life.

If this girl is the one for you, then youll want to do everything the ''right'' way.

God may very well put her into your life at this young age, but keep in mind that the only way you can make it in this case is to keep your actions and behavior godly.
This means treating this young woman with all the respect due her.
Help her grow towards God with your actions.

Theres nothing wrong with your wanting a girl who is godly and who doesnt drink.
In fact, I commend you young man cause too many young people are falling into all sorts of sin.

Just pray to our Lord and let Him know you want a godly girl for your life.
Pray often and then wait.

He'll put someone in your life that you will love with all your heart.
Just dont settle for less like I did.

I was 16 when God showed me what I was waiting for, and now that Im 38 He is answering my prayers.

Just wait for HIm to put the right one there.
When He does, she'll be so amazing that you'll just know shes the one....

 

[ZoneChaos]

When I was in highschool, about your age, I tghought I found the girl for me... and take note of the "I found".

I loved her, or atleast I felt about her what I thought was love for her. We went out for about 2 years, and for the most part it was awesome, except for one thing... she wasn't a Christian, and I knew it.

So, the inevitable happened: she broke up with me, in one of the harshest ways.

I have forgiven her, and have even grown to lov her again, as a Christian should, but for a while I hated her. It consumed me.

It was a match born of self, of my own desires, and not of God, and because of this, it bore the fruit of self: pain, hate, jealousy...

And then a few years later, here I was making the same mistakes all over again: I was looking for what I wanted in a girl.. and then, something changed. A freind of mind who just went through the same thing I was going through shared his testimony to me, and I felt that God spoke to me through him.

His message? Wait. The hardest thing I have ever been told do to. But i said ok God, I will. I am 27 years old now. It was 7 years ago that I had that conversation with my friend and its been about 10+ years since the girl I spoke about.

In that time god has shown me so many things. I trust in him to bring me the girl He has for me, and I know that she will be "the perfect" girl for me.

So, while it can be hard, trusting in God is the only way to go, but He will help you if you need it.

Let me ask you a question God asked me, and still asks me from time to time.. then talk to Him about it, tell him about this question:

Is God enough for you? If you never were to get married, would God be enough for you?

Perhps first, you need to focus on God, and make Him nuber 1 in your life, and then He will show you who your perfect girl is.

 

[RapcityZ]

so what you people are saying that i should stop being soo hurt and all this and just wait for god to decide whos good for me and maybe god will make her talk to me and all ?

 

[seangoh]

so what you people are saying that i should stop being soo hurt and all this and just wait for god to decide whos good for me and maybe god will make her talk to me and all ?

hi rapcityz, you're still very young and it's not advisable to act rashly and quickly get a gf. Remember there are 6billion people in the world of which you only see a fraction of them. In line with what the others said before, what if there really was someone better that was so perfect and compatible for you? And God has a plan such that He will make that perfect girl "appear" before you when you are say, 25 years old. Hey i'm 23 now and i'm learning this always, to wait on the Lord. I'm reminded of Psa 37:4
"Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart. "

What are your desires of your heart? To get a great gf? Yeah, sounds good right? coz that's what my desire is too. But there is a precondition to it, and that is to delight yourself in the Lord and THEN He will give. Now i don't know whether that girl u're talking about is THE one. But based on what you said, she's not treating you very well. Now project that to marriage and see what will happen if you both got married. It's essential to know her character and think of whether she is really compatible to you. Feelings can so often deceive a person, especially me as i've had my own number of crushes. I also had dreams like you. And i came to this theory, not sure whether it's right, that those dreams mostly won't come true. Don't believe me? Start keeping track of the dreams you had then. You know i was so deceived by those dreams that i thought it was from God and i just "went ahead". But it turned out that i was wrong and it was just wishful thinking on my part. Now i know that if God really wanted me to take notice of a dream, He would very clearly point it out to me and not have me thinking about the dream all day long and trying to interpret it in my own way.

As for your friend who dreamed too, probably a scientific explanation is that alot of our dreams are as a result of what impacts us in our life experience. Probably your friend has been in touch with you and know about your liking to her and so this situation has been in his mind, and when he sleeps, he starts dreaming. hehe..dreams are so interesting aren't they?