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you know i think so ..i really do .. i mean i dont believe anger causes ocd at all it triggers it ..but it can result in self loathing for lots of reasons for example there is afalse sense of guilt that comes with it ..i remember having harm thoughts about my nephew and then just carryiong on with him like everything was ok ..and thats really unsettling because when the person that you would never harm physically is standing here and u suddenly haved an image of huirting them thats so disturbing ''

also the what if questions sometimes i think stem from this like if i could trust enough then i could Know that he would save me ..''

so because i cant trust enough that could very well lead to anger against ones self

very good thread mate
 
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you know i think so ..i really do .. i mean i dont believe anger causes ocd at all it triggers it ..but it can result in self loathing for lots of reasons for example there is afalse sense of guilt that comes with it ..i remember having harm thoughts about my nephew and then just carryiong on with him like everything was ok ..and thats really unsettling because when the person that you would never harm physically is standing here and u suddenly haved an image of huirting them thats so disturbing ''

also the what if questions sometimes i think stem from this like if i could trust enough then i could Know that he would save me ..''

so because i cant trust enough that could very well lead to anger against ones self

very good thread mate

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yes, i feel like im so stupid for this stuff and i hate myself because i feel like i've given up my only chance for salvation.

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I dont know that I always understand when I am angry or what anger is because for so long I dismissed any feelings of being 'upset'. however, I think my OCPD and OCD traits make me have really high expectations of self and I get frustrated with myself (and others) very quickly. and now that I am learning about this disorder in myself and learning to understand more emotions, I get angry at myself for being frustrated, as if that isn't a cycle of insanity and obsession!! I keep trying to work on 'let go and let God in these situations.
 
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Hey Johnnie,
You just can't know this for sure about any of us "you all have strongholds in your life" - unless you are omnicient which I'm quite sure you are not. (Neither is Satan by the way.)
I know you're trying to help. I don't at all doubt that and I'm thankful that you care enough to try. But it is clear to me that you have very little education about the disorder of OCD. Otherwise you wouldn't say such a thing.
Mitzi

Cmon guys, you all have strongholds in your life that can be pulled down by trusting in the Rock of His Word!

You gotta believe Him! What He says is true about you!

You are born of God! You are His beloved Children! Don't believe satans lies.
 
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I used to get mad at myself for not being able to shrug off the fear and the obsessing. I thought it meant I was a real weak person. I don't feel this way anymore because I know why the fear is there. I know my brain is overeacting by sending me all those false signals. I do get mad at myself when I'm not doing the things that I know I should in order to manage my disorder to the best of my ability. Sometimes I get lazy about those things and that's not a good idea. So I pray for God to help me to be self disciplined to do those things that I know I should.
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Does it cause you to self hatred and bitterness toward yourself?

I know it has with me in the past.

Curious if anyone has this problem?
 
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Does it cause you to self hatred and bitterness toward yourself?

I know it has with me in the past.

Curious if anyone has this problem?

Yes I can say for myself - YES - I have felt a hatred towards myself and I feel that sometimes God is going to get mad at me for being that way but it makes me get emotional and sometimes the tears are just too much at times. I sometimes want to take a bat and just beat the wall in. I can't take it anymore because I just started a "New Relationship" with my Nephews and I want to be strong "Emotionally" for them because I want to be a positive "Influence" in their life. I have someone telling me that I have to PUT FORTH the effort to do better when it comes to the Emotional issues (although they don't know what I'm struggling with is Emotional but I sort of just talk around the issue) and that's fine but I'm just downright afraid to let go of the OCD habits/Rituals because I'm afraid if do then something BIG is going to happen in that area and I'm going to really physically mess up my life. It's like if I don't "Monitor" the area then something is going to be out of place...(You would have to read my first post to understand what I'm struggling with)

Sorry to hijack the post with more than what I should have said.
 
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