brian78 said:
So this means we don't really have free will?
Brian, I have no idea how you define "free will" so, at this point, I could not answer your question. If you mean "do we freely make the choices we make according to our nature and those choices are not forced by God" then yes, we freely make choices. However, man is never completely "free." In his unregenerate state he longs
ONLY to do the will of his father, satan. So, that's what he does. God does not hold back some who would otherwise wish to come to him. Apart from the regenerative grace of God none of us would ever submit to Him in faith. Those to whom the Lord
graciously supplies salvitic faith freely and gladly submit to Him as Lord and Savior. Those to whom the Lord does not supply this faith
remain dead in their trespasses and sins and neither desire to obey the Lord God nor do they ever do so.
Why does God (who is a loving, caring God) create a human being when He knows that creation will not choose him and suffer eternally?
The dilemma you are are experiencing is a result of your desire to protect God from seeming unjust. It is the common humanistic approach to the holiness of God that implies obligation upon God to love and care for all of His creation. This is not the biblical picture of our holy and just and merciful God. The Bible is clear that God has created "vessels of wrath prepared for destruction." The Bible is very clear that those who are/will be saved are saved
solely by the grace of God through the propitiatory sacrifice of the Lord Jesus Christ.
God has revealed to us the purpose for which He creates these "vessels of wrath":
Romans 9:16-18, 22-24
So then it is not of him who wills, nor of him who runs, but of God who shows mercy. For the Scripture says to the Pharaoh, "
For this very purpose I have raised you up,
that I may show My power in you, and that My name may be declared in all the earth." Therefore He has mercy on whom He wills, and whom He wills He hardens.
What if God, wanting to show His wrath and to make His power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath prepared for destruction, and that He might make known the riches of His glory on the vessels of mercy, which He had prepared beforehand for glory, even us whom He called, not of the Jews only, but also of the Gentiles?
The mercy of our Lord is made all that much clearer to we who are the vessels of His mercy because we are privvy to the righteous and just wrath that He visits upon the iniquity of those who have rightfully earned His wrath.
God bless