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Do you believe reality must conform to your desires?

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So what alternative do you see? Should we rebel against God and expect to win somehow? The US military can't even keep Al Queda down permanently. How would you expect humanity to defeat God?
 
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So what alternative do you see? Should we rebel against God and expect to win somehow? The US military can't even keep Al Queda down permanently. How would you expect humanity to defeat God?

I would guess, one can only think of defeating a God if they believe a God exists.
 
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I would guess, one can only think of defeating a God if they believe a God exists.

For those who don't believe He does exist, what's the problem then?
 
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It matters what other people believe and why because belief drives behavior and action.

But bhsmte doesn't seem to have a problem with God (believing He's not real). So what difference does it make to you? Has my behavior or actions affected you in any way?
 
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But bhsmte doesn't seem to have a problem with God (believing He's not real). So what difference does it make to you? Has my behavior or actions affected you in any way?

As long as you do not attempt to negatively impact my life or my rights with your beliefs, you can go about your merry way and believe in whatever you like.
 
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As long as you do not attempt to negatively impact my life or my rights with your beliefs, you can go about your merry way and believe in whatever you like.

Then why so many arguments here about Christian beliefs? Why can't you just let it be? Nobody here is doing anything to impact your, or Poolerboy's, or anyone else's life in the slightest.
 
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Then why so many arguments here about Christian beliefs? Why can't you just let it be? Nobody here is doing anything to impact your, or Poolerboy's, or anyone else's life in the slightest.

Let me repeat what I have said many times on this forum and my posting history will confirm:

I only take issue with Christian beliefs, when the person professing to be a Christian does any of the following:

-claims they are better than me and have better morals because they are Christian
-Claims they have objective evidence to show their God exists
-Claims I am mad at God and or, am being led by evil
-Makes false claims about well evidenced scientific claims

Many Christians on this site, never engage in any of the above and I have complete respect for their beliefs. When someone engages in any of the above though, it opens the door to question the same.
 
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So do you just hang around waiting for someone to violate one of those rules? I'm sure someone who believes in something you don't is going to say something that will offend one of your rules.

I don't know if Christians generally think they are "better" than someone else, but I think it goes without saying that if they didn't think it was better to accept Christ into their life than not to, then they wouldn't have done it. Same could be said for any other decision. People generally decide to do what they believe is better than an alternative decision.
 
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Reality is what it is.

But between "me" and that reality "out there" is a barrier of biases, upbringing, culture, fears, illusory mental processes among others.

So the "subjective reality" I experience is partly influenced by my desires and unconscious needs and wants.


I also think their may be benefits to having a rosier "subjective reality" than is actually "out there". For example, if you optimistically believe people are inherently good, you might be less fearful and more willing to talk to strangers and build community. This may mean that you have a confirmation bias to notice and seek out positive examples rather than negative examples of human intentions and actions.
 
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I think more people than not hold this particular subjective reality, which often leads them to disappointment.
 
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