One facet of "OSAS" (Calvinism) asserts that "man is too corrupt* to EVER seek God; he must be regenerated before he can even THINK of believing."
* There is a difference between "total depravity", and "utter depravity"; against the charge of "Pelagianism", many of us who believe in "OSNAS", accept that we are totally depraved; our righteousness is to God as filthy rags. Apart from Him, we have nothing, we are nothing, we can only die. Jn15:6 WITH Him --- we are perfect (Matt5:18), we are righteous (2Cor5:21), we can do ALL THINGS (Philip4:13).
Us who accept "total depravity" of all mankind, agree that we always tend towards sin; but this differs from "utter depravity", in that with "TD", God's call of everyone TO Himself, overcomes our depravity in enough measure that we CAN believe.
Utter depravity, on the other hand, asserts that those who are NOT elected, are not even called --- they are both totally depraved AND utterly depraved --- without chance or faint hope of redemption.
It is a subtle point; but foundationally important. Pelagius asserted that "man has inherent goodness, and can find God if he seeks"; Responsible Grace asserts that man IS totally depraved, and must be CALLED to salvation; yet that call is sufficient to overcome his sinfulness, and place him squarely at the Door of salvation, before JESUS --- he can enter in and BECOME "saved-sheep", or he can turn away and choose depravity. All are called, and those who ANSWER that call receive Jesus (by their own faith), believe and are saved. Calvinism asserts that the very faith that SAVES believers, is something that God sovereignly INSTALLS (or gifts, or instills, etc) in our hearts by monergistic (unilateral) decision (we have no choice in our election)...
Hence the question:
First, let's look at:
"There is none righteous, none who seeks for God; all have turned aside, they have become uselyess; none who does good, not even one; their throat is an open grave, their tongues keep deceiving; the poison of asps lies under their lips; ...there is no fear of God before their eyes..." Rom3:10-19
This reads to the Calvinist, as: "You CANNOT seek God EVER". They reason that "God must CHANGE the heart so that they CAN seek Him."
Is this Scriptural truth?
Rom3:10-19 is not "Pauline writing"; he is merely citing Psalms 14, and 51. Is the "NONE-SEEK", being written as DICTATE? Or is it a lamentation, exaggerating in saying "NO one seeks"?
Look now at:
"You will call upon Me, and come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. You will SEEK Me and you will FIND Me, when you search with all your heart. I WILL BE FOUND BY YOU" declares the Lord God..." Jeremiah 29:11-14
This was written to the Israelites; does it apply to us today?
Romans 3 continues with:
"God is just, and justifier of he who BELIEVES in Jesus". Which comes first --- belief, or justification? Does God justify the believer? Or does he believe whom God justifies?
Opening his mouth, Peter said: "I certainly understand that God is not one who show partiality (is no respecter of persons), but in every natnion the man who fears Him (reveres) and does right is welcome to him." Acts10:34-35
Calvinism asserts that "man is elect by God's SOVEREIGN choice" --- casting God forever as the ultimate "respecter of persons".
Is He a "respecter of persons", or not?
"He who asks, receives. He who seeks, finds. To him who knocks, it shall be opened..." Matt7:8
He who seeks, finds? Does this apply to salvation? Do seekers find, or do the found seek?
"Without faith it is impossible to please God, for he who comes to God must believe that he is, and that He is a rewarder of those who seek Him." Heb11:6
A rewarder of those who seek. This seems not to support "monergistic-instilled-saving-faith", doesn't it? Instead, the whole chapter of Heb11 speaks of faith, and places faith as causal towards God's favor.
That's opposite of "Predestined-Election", which asserts "God's favor is CAUSAL to saving-faith".
Thus is Romans3 cast solidly as a "lamentation", not a dictate; exaggerating that no one seeks God --- but not contradicting that if you DO seek Him, you WILL FIND Him.
"Many are called, but few are chosen". Matt22:2-14 This parable is called by Calvinists, as "not indicating eternal salvation". That denies the context, "The kingdom of Heaven is LIKE...." It is referring to "salvation".
By parable's end, all have been called --- Jew (first-called), and Gentile (second-called) alike. Those who RECEIVE the invitation, come and put on the king's clean garments (HIS righteousness!), become the chosen.
Over and over faith is charged to us, and makes us responsible. By faith we seek God, and He receives our faith. By faith we walk in Him (Col2:6 --- everyone better be lookin' these up!), and by faith we abide in Him (1Jn2:26-28)
God rewards those who SEEK Him. It does not say "they seek whom God has pre-chosen"...

* There is a difference between "total depravity", and "utter depravity"; against the charge of "Pelagianism", many of us who believe in "OSNAS", accept that we are totally depraved; our righteousness is to God as filthy rags. Apart from Him, we have nothing, we are nothing, we can only die. Jn15:6 WITH Him --- we are perfect (Matt5:18), we are righteous (2Cor5:21), we can do ALL THINGS (Philip4:13).
Us who accept "total depravity" of all mankind, agree that we always tend towards sin; but this differs from "utter depravity", in that with "TD", God's call of everyone TO Himself, overcomes our depravity in enough measure that we CAN believe.
Utter depravity, on the other hand, asserts that those who are NOT elected, are not even called --- they are both totally depraved AND utterly depraved --- without chance or faint hope of redemption.
It is a subtle point; but foundationally important. Pelagius asserted that "man has inherent goodness, and can find God if he seeks"; Responsible Grace asserts that man IS totally depraved, and must be CALLED to salvation; yet that call is sufficient to overcome his sinfulness, and place him squarely at the Door of salvation, before JESUS --- he can enter in and BECOME "saved-sheep", or he can turn away and choose depravity. All are called, and those who ANSWER that call receive Jesus (by their own faith), believe and are saved. Calvinism asserts that the very faith that SAVES believers, is something that God sovereignly INSTALLS (or gifts, or instills, etc) in our hearts by monergistic (unilateral) decision (we have no choice in our election)...
Hence the question:
"Do we seek God and FIND Him (and He finds us)?
Or does He find us FIRST and then the 'founders' seek Him (consequentially)?"
Or does He find us FIRST and then the 'founders' seek Him (consequentially)?"
First, let's look at:
"There is none righteous, none who seeks for God; all have turned aside, they have become uselyess; none who does good, not even one; their throat is an open grave, their tongues keep deceiving; the poison of asps lies under their lips; ...there is no fear of God before their eyes..." Rom3:10-19
This reads to the Calvinist, as: "You CANNOT seek God EVER". They reason that "God must CHANGE the heart so that they CAN seek Him."
Is this Scriptural truth?
Rom3:10-19 is not "Pauline writing"; he is merely citing Psalms 14, and 51. Is the "NONE-SEEK", being written as DICTATE? Or is it a lamentation, exaggerating in saying "NO one seeks"?
Look now at:
"You will call upon Me, and come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. You will SEEK Me and you will FIND Me, when you search with all your heart. I WILL BE FOUND BY YOU" declares the Lord God..." Jeremiah 29:11-14
This was written to the Israelites; does it apply to us today?
Romans 3 continues with:
"God is just, and justifier of he who BELIEVES in Jesus". Which comes first --- belief, or justification? Does God justify the believer? Or does he believe whom God justifies?
Opening his mouth, Peter said: "I certainly understand that God is not one who show partiality (is no respecter of persons), but in every natnion the man who fears Him (reveres) and does right is welcome to him." Acts10:34-35
Calvinism asserts that "man is elect by God's SOVEREIGN choice" --- casting God forever as the ultimate "respecter of persons".
Is He a "respecter of persons", or not?
"He who asks, receives. He who seeks, finds. To him who knocks, it shall be opened..." Matt7:8
He who seeks, finds? Does this apply to salvation? Do seekers find, or do the found seek?
"Without faith it is impossible to please God, for he who comes to God must believe that he is, and that He is a rewarder of those who seek Him." Heb11:6
A rewarder of those who seek. This seems not to support "monergistic-instilled-saving-faith", doesn't it? Instead, the whole chapter of Heb11 speaks of faith, and places faith as causal towards God's favor.
That's opposite of "Predestined-Election", which asserts "God's favor is CAUSAL to saving-faith".
Thus is Romans3 cast solidly as a "lamentation", not a dictate; exaggerating that no one seeks God --- but not contradicting that if you DO seek Him, you WILL FIND Him.
"Many are called, but few are chosen". Matt22:2-14 This parable is called by Calvinists, as "not indicating eternal salvation". That denies the context, "The kingdom of Heaven is LIKE...." It is referring to "salvation".
By parable's end, all have been called --- Jew (first-called), and Gentile (second-called) alike. Those who RECEIVE the invitation, come and put on the king's clean garments (HIS righteousness!), become the chosen.
Over and over faith is charged to us, and makes us responsible. By faith we seek God, and He receives our faith. By faith we walk in Him (Col2:6 --- everyone better be lookin' these up!), and by faith we abide in Him (1Jn2:26-28)
God rewards those who SEEK Him. It does not say "they seek whom God has pre-chosen"...