Singin4Him said:
Does he not want to go off to college?
The short answer is yes, in many ways he does, but is questioning, given a cost of around $100,000.00 or more, if it's worth it to go traditionally. And that's just for a bachelor's degree. I feel a master's degree is becoming more the minimum expectation, and that a bachelor's degree is starting to be regarded the way a high school diploma was looked on years ago.
The long answer follows:
A few years ago at a home school conference, we met a representative from Moody Bible College who was speaking about distance learning. His question was why home schoolers were willing to use alternative education UNTIL they got to college, and then would just automatically go the traditional, 4-year route. It was the "bee in my bonnet" that got me thinking about the whole picture of college.
At this point, we are exploring all the options as a family. Given the astronomical cost associated with just a bachelor's degree done traditionally, we want to weigh all the options. We haven't ruled anything in or out, but are leaning towards a Christian college - and when I say we, I include my son, not just the parental units.
We have a state college in our town very nearby and are a suburb of one of the mecca's of higher learning. Basically, we have colleges coming out of our ears, right in our general area.
I believe I mentioned my son does some on-line classes already, at the high school level, and for the most part has really enjoyed the experience and made some good friends through the school.
Also, he is currently working part-time while he does his studies and he really enjoys his job and being in the work environment - and of course, making some money! So the work/study option is also very appealing.
Finally, I've been questioning for a while if our money might not be better spent helping him buy real estate - like a condo - rather than having rent going down the drain every month, never to be seen again.
The bottom line is, one huge amount of money is involved in all of this, and I want to spend it wisely.