Because of our sinfulness, we will always have problems and painful situations in marriage. However, if we imitate Jesus, by not thinking about our own feelings or interest, and think about others, especially our spouse, we will find peace and healing. Furthermore, if we truly believe, that God can heal us, we can be absolutely sure that our inequities that prevent us from getting along with our spouse can be overcome. We will then find hope in hopeless situations, love where there is hate, peace where there is discord, and see the face of God in the pain and suffering of our spouse. This means that, if we let true love govern our thoughts and actions, we will love and forgive our spouse unconditionally. This will free us of hate, and heal our relationship with our spouse. Sometimes, the stresses of marriage may seem unbearable, especially if our spouse is alcoholic, abusive, mentally ill or unfaithful. In such situations, we can stay faithful to our commitment; by remembering, how Jesus compensated for our wrong doing, when we were unfaithful to him and wronged him. We should continually pray and make sacrifices for the conversion of our spouse. In our prayers, we should surrender ourselves completely to Gods will, and ask Him to be our thoughts, feelings, desires and actions.
Since divorce is rejection of a union of love (who is God), it produces hate, bitterness, hurt, hopelessness, revenge, rejection and anger. It leads to eternal unrest in the spirits of the couple and affects everyone around them. When we try to justify divorce based on what we call bad marriage, and even say that there was no real marriage; we increase divorces; because, people can justify divorce by claiming that there was no real marriage. Furthermore, since people know that they can always get out of a marriage by claiming that the marriage was not real, they enter into marriages without truly believing that it is permanent. Since true love is unconditional, it is always permanent. Therefore, entering a marriage without accepting its permanency makes it devoid of true love. Furthermore, since, there can never be peace without true love, there can never be peace without accepting permanency in marriage.
Since love is total surrender of one self to serve the other, conjugal union becomes an act of love only when the involved parties have totally committed ones entire life to serve the other, and together as a couple have surrendered them selves by leaving their union open to accepting new human beings. Since total and unconditional surrender of ones life to another human being occurs only in marriage, for it to be an act of love it must be within a marriage. Since conjugal act is procreative, those involved in this act must accept procreative responsibility. Procreative responsibility is to accept and raise children (that are procreated from such acts) in a family. Children need a father, and a mother, that are united to form one unit of love (which occurs only in marriage), for them to experience love. Without love, their spirit suffers immense trauma; because, love is the very basic need for human beings. When divorced parents try to express love to their children, they do not feel loved, because, in their parents disunity they see lack of true love. Deep in their heart they know, that, true love (which is unconditional) never dies, and does not accept one and reject the other. When parents, who are not married (to each other), try to express love to their children, they do not feel loved, because, parental love is experienced only in union, and never in solitude. Love between husband and wife is reflection of Gods love, because we are made in the image of God. God is not solitude, but a family, in which the Father and Son offer their lives to each other, completely, with the Holy Spirit as the love, that binds them. In a human family, husband and wife offer their lives to each other, completely, with Holy Spirit as the love that binds them. Children feel very insecure and broken, when the two people, who brought them into existence, are not united, because, they see their own existence in their parents union.
Since divorce is rejection of a union of love (who is God), it produces hate, bitterness, hurt, hopelessness, revenge, rejection and anger. It leads to eternal unrest in the spirits of the couple and affects everyone around them. When we try to justify divorce based on what we call bad marriage, and even say that there was no real marriage; we increase divorces; because, people can justify divorce by claiming that there was no real marriage. Furthermore, since people know that they can always get out of a marriage by claiming that the marriage was not real, they enter into marriages without truly believing that it is permanent. Since true love is unconditional, it is always permanent. Therefore, entering a marriage without accepting its permanency makes it devoid of true love. Furthermore, since, there can never be peace without true love, there can never be peace without accepting permanency in marriage.
Since love is total surrender of one self to serve the other, conjugal union becomes an act of love only when the involved parties have totally committed ones entire life to serve the other, and together as a couple have surrendered them selves by leaving their union open to accepting new human beings. Since total and unconditional surrender of ones life to another human being occurs only in marriage, for it to be an act of love it must be within a marriage. Since conjugal act is procreative, those involved in this act must accept procreative responsibility. Procreative responsibility is to accept and raise children (that are procreated from such acts) in a family. Children need a father, and a mother, that are united to form one unit of love (which occurs only in marriage), for them to experience love. Without love, their spirit suffers immense trauma; because, love is the very basic need for human beings. When divorced parents try to express love to their children, they do not feel loved, because, in their parents disunity they see lack of true love. Deep in their heart they know, that, true love (which is unconditional) never dies, and does not accept one and reject the other. When parents, who are not married (to each other), try to express love to their children, they do not feel loved, because, parental love is experienced only in union, and never in solitude. Love between husband and wife is reflection of Gods love, because we are made in the image of God. God is not solitude, but a family, in which the Father and Son offer their lives to each other, completely, with the Holy Spirit as the love, that binds them. In a human family, husband and wife offer their lives to each other, completely, with Holy Spirit as the love that binds them. Children feel very insecure and broken, when the two people, who brought them into existence, are not united, because, they see their own existence in their parents union.
