When I attend church with my wife she diplays herself as a very supporting and out going. As soon as it end up in a different enviroment she is hard to talk to and her vebal responces are not nice. I am not the only one that feels this way. This is very hurtful and the church backs her 100% and I end up to be the blacksheep. I thought that it was just me and I viewed it wrong. We have been seperated for 7 months now. She recently told one son that wanting a divorce is a mutal decission. I want to stay married byt she does not love me. Any advice on how to deal with this situation without making matters worse ?
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Be honest with those around you about how you feel about her. This will bring some support for you from your friends. As for children, I would just try to talk to them about what is going on. I don't believe in lying to kids but also don't put them in the middle. It's a tough situation and it will take some time to adjust to. If your wife is willing to get counselling then I would definately try that and be honest with the counsellor about the way she acts in each situation.
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My son after viewing the situation for himself, I am just trying to have an open ear to listen to what he has to say. He does not want to talk to my wife about it and thinks that it will not improve the situation.
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