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Did David and Johnathan Have a Gay Relationship?

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Because if a verse in the Bible says the Bible is inerrant, that means it is all inerrant, including that verse. This is bad circular thinking always bugs me...

Edit: Oh, and how exactly do you know what is 'unnatural'. Many studies, especially ones of animals, find that same sex attraction IS natural. Ooops, science again. I'm sorry, I'll be quiet.
 
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I am familiar with the argument that says that Johnathen and David can't have had a gay relationship, and it has no contextual, grammatical, exegentical or etymological support. It is an argument contrived by modern theological conservatives who construct arguments based on what they want to be true, even though it is textually groundless.

What's wrong with that statement?
 
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Unnatural affection??? You just prove my point. We think that because we develop this huristic about the Bible that everything must fit into otherwise we deem it invalid. Yes the Bible is the only and absolute word of God, but it's only as good as how we interpret it. I know an entire denomination that would argue with you on the interpretation of "unnatural affection". Basically what I was trying to say is that people are not OPEN MINDED twards ALTERNATIVE INTERPRETATIONS. Just like you!

 
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[FONT=&quot]The Bible and Homosexuality[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]By Rev. Mona West, Ph.D.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Lesbians and gay men face discrimination because of societal attitudes. Unfortunately, these attitudes are often taught by churches and, sadly, the Bible is frequently used as a weapon to “bash” lesbians and gays. It is important to remember that such hurtful things are not a reflection of Christ, or the way God wants the church to be, or even what the Bible really says.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Only a small number of passages in the entire Bible reference same-sex sexual activity (six out of sixty-six books of the entire Bible). Obviously this topic was not of great concern to the biblical writers. Yet these verses have been used to justify hatred, condemnation and exclusion of God’s lesbian and gay children.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]The word ‘homosexuality’ is a modern term and did not exist during biblical times. Biblical writers had no concept of sexual orientation or sexual development as we understand those today. Therefore, passages that reference same-sex sexual activity should not been seen as comprehensive statements concerning homosexuality, but instead should be viewed in the context of what the ancient world that produced the Bible understood about sexual activity.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Sexuality in the Mediterranean World[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Biblical scholars have employed the social sciences to study the relational and gender patterns of the ancient Mediterranean world—the world that produced the Bible. Professor Mary Tolbert summarizes that research with the following words:[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]The single most important concept that defines sexuality in the ancient Mediterranean world, whether we are talking about the kingdoms of [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Egypt[/FONT][FONT=&quot] or of [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Assyria[/FONT][FONT=&quot] or whether we are talking about the later kingdoms of [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Greece[/FONT][FONT=&quot] and [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Rome[/FONT][FONT=&quot], is that approved sexual acts never occurred between social equals. Sexuality, by definition, in ancient Mediterranean societies required the combination of dominance and submission. This crucial social and political root metaphor of dominance and submission as the definition of sexuality rested upon a physical basis that assumed every sex act required a penetrator and someone who was penetrated. Needless to say, this definition of sexuality was entirely male—not surprising in the heavily patriarchal societies of the [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Mediterranean[/FONT][FONT=&quot].[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]In these societies sexual acts between men did happen, but they happened in order to show dominance of one group of men or a man over another, especially during times of war. It was not uncommon for men who had conquered a foreign army to rape them in order to show they were dominant and of a higher status.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]The Story of [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Sodom[/FONT][FONT=&quot] in Genesis 19[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]This understanding is helpful when we read the story of the city of [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Sodom[/FONT][FONT=&quot], [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Lot[/FONT][FONT=&quot], and the visitors (or angels). The men of [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Sodom[/FONT][FONT=&quot] want to ‘know’ (yadah - a Hebrew word that can mean sexual intercourse) the foreigners who have come to [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Lot[/FONT][FONT=&quot]’s house. In essence they want to rape them in order to show their social and cultural dominance over them.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]This story is not a condemnation of homosexuality, but is a story about rape and inhospitality. In other biblical texts (Ezekiel [/FONT][FONT=&quot]16:49[/FONT][FONT=&quot], Luke [/FONT][FONT=&quot]17:28[/FONT][FONT=&quot]-29) [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Sodom[/FONT][FONT=&quot]’s ‘sin’ is not identified as homosexuality, rather, their sins were pride, failure to help the poor, and lack of hospitality to foreigners.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Leviticus[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]“You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.” ([/FONT][FONT=&quot]18:22[/FONT][FONT=&quot])[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]“If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall be put to death; their blood is upon them.” ([/FONT][FONT=&quot]20:13[/FONT][FONT=&quot]) [/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]These verses are part of the Holiness Code in the Old Testament book of Leviticus (chapters 17-26) that attempted to spell out ways the people of [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Israel[/FONT][FONT=&quot] would act differently than their Mediterranean neighbors. In light of the previously mentioned sexual practices of [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Israel[/FONT][FONT=&quot]’s neighbors, it becomes clear that this prohibition in Leviticus was an attempt to preserve the internal harmony of Jewish male society by not allowing them to participate in anal intercourse as a form of expressing or gaining social and political dominance. These verses in no way prohibit, nor do they even speak, to loving, caring sexual relationships between people of the same gender.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]The Writings of the Apostle Paul[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]“So do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the [/FONT][FONT=&quot]kingdom[/FONT][FONT=&quot] of [/FONT][FONT=&quot]God[/FONT][FONT=&quot]? Do not be deceived! Fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, male prostitutes, sodomites, thieves, the greedy, drunkards, revilers, robbers—none of these will inherit the [/FONT][FONT=&quot]kingdom[/FONT][FONT=&quot] of [/FONT][FONT=&quot]God[/FONT][FONT=&quot]” (1 Corinthians 6:9-10).[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]“The law is laid down not for the innocent but for the lawless and disobedient, for the godless and sinful, for the unholy and profane, for those who kill their father or mother, for murderers, fornicators, sodomites, slave traders, liars, perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to the sound teaching that conforms to the glorious gospel of the blessed God” (1 Timothy 1:9-11).[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]There are two major issues to consider when one approaches these passages: translation and sexual practices of Greek culture. A comparison of these verses in several translations of the Bible indicates that there is some confusion about how to translate two Greek words in these lists of vices Paul has enumerated. The two words are arsenokoitai which is rendered in various translations as “homosexuals,” “sodomites,” “child molesters,” or “perverts” and malakoi which is rendered in various translations as “catamites,” “the effeminate,” or “boy prostitutes.”[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]These Greek words are difficult to translate in the context of these passages. Malakoi is a common term and means “soft.” It can refer to clothing (Matthew 11:8) or moral matters, meaning “undisciplined.” Arsenokoitai is a rare word and is made up of arseno meaning “man,” and koitai meaning “bed, lying, or having sex with.” When put together the word may mean “male prostitutes.”[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]When these words are placed in the context of Greek culture in which Paul was writing, the passages have very specific meanings. As we have seen earlier, the Mediterranean world had a definition of sexuality that was based on dominance/submission and unequal status. Greek culture fine tuned that definition with regard to status. Proper sexual relations occurred between people whose status was unequal. In addition there was a practice in ancient Greek culture known as pederasty in which younger men were socialized and educated through a close relationship with an older man. These older men were the boys’ (age 12 or 13) patrons and, often, their lovers. These relationships were seen as the key to raising up the next generation of city leaders and there were strict rules about how long the relationship should last and the roles of families within these relationships. Evidently there was some abuse happening in these relationships and young boys were being exploited and kept by the patron well after the boy had grown into adulthood (which would have made him an equal, hence violating the code of sex only among unequals).[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]These abusive relationships are what the apostle Paul is referencing, not mutually loving and caring relationships between people of the same sex.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Romans 1:26-27[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]“For this reason God gave them up to degrading passions. Their women exchanged natural intercourse for unnatural, and in the same way also the men, giving up natural intercourse with women, were consumed with passion for one another. Men committed shameless acts with men and received in their own persons the due penalty for their error.”[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]By now it should be clear that these verses must be read in the cultural context of the Mediterranean world that understood socially acceptable sexual behavior to happen only one way: among unequals with the dominant partner always an adult male.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]It is also important to read these verses in Romans within their larger context. At the beginning of his letter to the church in Rome (where he had not yet visited) Paul was attempting to lay out for the Roman church his theology of grace (all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God; but are justified by the gift of grace in Christ Jesus, 3:23). He is writing to a Jewish and Gentile audience. In chapter one he tries to demonstrate the Gentiles’ need for God by pointing out behaviors that keep them alienated from God. In chapter two he does the same thing for his Jewish audience.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Paul’s reference to natural and unnatural sexual acts must be taken in light of Mediterranean sexuality. He is not attempting to give an ethical teaching concerning homosexuality. He is trying to meet his Gentile audience on their own terms; using the example of some people who are not upholding the dominant/submissive model as an opportunity to talk about all persons’ need for the saving grace of Jesus Christ.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Issues of Biblical Authority[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]When dealing with matters of biblical interpretation one always needs to keep in mind the role of the authority of the Bible in matters of faith and practice. While the Bible is an important witness to the relationship between God and humanity, it is not the ultimate revelation of God—Jesus Christ, the Word made flesh, is. We must guard against what some scholars have called bibliolatry—making an idol out of scripture.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]One way to guard against bibliolatry is to realize that while the Bible may be at the center of matters of faith, it must also be in ‘conversation’ with tradition, experience and reason. These four sources of faith have become known as the Wesleyan quadrilateral, so named after their originator John Wesley, founder of the Methodist heritage.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]We must read and interpret scripture with the aid of the history and tradition of the Christian church. We must also bring reason—philosophical and rational thought--to bear on applications of scripture to real life situations. And last and most importantly, scripture must be weighed alongside human experience—especially the experience of God’s grace.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]It is time we stopped making an idol out of the Bible. It is time we bring philosophical and rational thought—especially what the sciences have told us about sexual orientation and identity development—into conversation with the Bible. It is time we listen to the experiences of God’s gay and lesbian children who know with all their hearts that God has created them just as they are.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Resources[/FONT]
[FONT=&quot]Brooten, Bernadette (1996). Love Between Women: Early Christian Responses to Female Homoeroticism. [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Chicago[/FONT][FONT=&quot]: [/FONT][FONT=&quot]University[/FONT][FONT=&quot] of [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Chicago[/FONT][FONT=&quot] Press.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Helminiak, Daniel (1994). What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality. [/FONT][FONT=&quot]San Francisco[/FONT][FONT=&quot]: [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Alamo Square[/FONT][FONT=&quot] Press.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Scroggs, Robin (1983). The New Testament and Homosexuality. [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Philadelphia[/FONT][FONT=&quot]: Fortress Press.[/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Tolbert, Mary (2002). “Homoeroticism in the Biblical World: Biblical Texts in Historical Contexts.” Paper delivered at Lancaster School of Theology, published on the web at www.clgs.org. [/FONT]
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[FONT=&quot]Wink, Walter (1999). Homosexuality and the Christian Faith: Questions of Conscience for the Churches. [/FONT][FONT=&quot]Minneapolis[/FONT][FONT=&quot]: Fortress Press.[/FONT]
 
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I doubt it very much. Leviticus hadn't yet been written.

Now that is a truly amazing statement. Davids lifetime is said to be about 1040 to 970 BC. Leviticus is said to be written around 1440 BC. Around 400 years BEFORE Davids time. And David wouldn't have known Levitical law?
 
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Because if a verse in the Bible says the Bible is inerrant, that means it is all inerrant, including that verse. This is bad circular thinking always bugs me...

paladin, you're cracking me up.

I never set out to prove or defend the divine infallible inspiration of the Bible. (Make for a great debate, though.) The post I responded to simply assumed that it wasn't or could not be, without any argumentation or attempt to explain, justify or philosophically defend this position.

My post was simply meant to demonstrate that mere assertion does not work with Christians who believe otherwise.

If anyone wants to debate the point, though, I would be more than happy to accomodate.
 
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Yes the Bible is the only and absolute word of God, but it's only as good as how we interpret it.

You're equivocating.

Either it is the Word of God, a perfect reflection of the mind, intent and will of God, expressing only one meaning; or, "it's only as good as how one interprets it" -- meaning we can make it mean whatever we want it to mean.

Basically what I was trying to say is that people are not OPEN MINDED twards ALTERNATIVE INTERPRETATIONS.
You're equivocating again. We can't have two competing, mutually contradictory opinions co-exist together in irreconcilable tension. And you know it. You're not interested in whether "alternative interpretations" "might" exist. You've made up your mind beforehand that the Christian interpretation must be defeated, and the Bible deconstructed to fit your preconceived ideas.

The issue is really one of inspiration, infallibility, inerrancy and authority. Either God is God, or man is God. This is what the debate is ultimately all about.
 
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No. This was the beginning of brotherly love, as the OT shows "man" evolving into better men.

Jonathan's act of disrobing is common all throughout ancient histories and is a symbol of submission.

This was the beginning of submission, and a evolution of mankind into submission and also that of brotherly love.

This is a story of submission and honor given unto David.

As one can see in the OT, even people rebelled against Moses.

This was the first act of real submission and yielding.

And David loved Jonathan for that. Why wouldn't he?

I had a link on how this all ties into the war that was being fought with the Philistines at the time -- but I'd need time to search for it as I have like 300 bookmarks, and I'm serious! I have a lot of bookmarked pages -- hundreds!

And no Genesis says: A man shall leave his father and mother and cleave unto his wife and the two shall become one flesh.

And no, 1 Samuel 18 shows that two daughters were offered, but only Michal became David's wife. That's what 1 Samuel 18 means.

1 Samuel 18

12 Saul was afraid of David, because the LORD was with David but had left Saul. 13 So he sent David away from him and gave him command over a thousand men, and David led the troops in their campaigns. 14 In everything he did he had great success, [c] because the LORD was with him. 15 When Saul saw how successful [d] he was, he was afraid of him. 16 But all Israel and Judah loved David, because he led them in their campaigns. 17 Saul said to David, "Here is my older daughter Merab. I will give her to you in marriage; only serve me bravely and fight the battles of the LORD." For Saul said to himself, "I will not raise a hand against him. Let the Philistines do that!"
18 But David said to Saul, "Who am I, and what is my family or my father's clan in Israel, that I should become the king's son-in-law?" 19 So [e] when the time came for Merab, Saul's daughter, to be given to David, she was given in marriage to Adriel of Meholah.
20 Now Saul's daughter Michal was in love with David, and when they told Saul about it, he was pleased. 21 "I will give her to him," he thought, "so that she may be a snare to him and so that the hand of the Philistines may be against him." So Saul said to David, "Now you have a second opportunity to become my son-in-law."
 
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what the....

how do you even begin to figure that?
That's plain ignorance.
I suggest you begin to investigate the Documentary Hypothesis, eirene. The Torah is a collection of writings not finally completed until after the Exilic period. What it isn't is "written by Moses."

This is, I would say, pretty much taken as read by OT scholars.
 
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Yes, but that is the point. God has called us to be higher than the animals, and not to act like mere animals who go my mere instinct. That's God's word.

We are not called to be anything like the animals period.

So let's leave the weird things animals do out of this. I can watch Animal Planet on TV for that!

There's a lot of things animals do that people don't. I've even seen dogs eat barf! ewwwwwwwww!
 
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Disagree. It's a collection of writings of Moses and his scribes.

Moses was pretty busy ya know... of course he had scribes. All great tribal leaders of ancients past have had scribes.
 
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Either it is the Word of God, a perfect reflection of the mind, intent and will of God, expressing only one meaning; or, "it's only as good as how one interprets it" -- meaning we can make it mean whatever we want it to mean.

It's a book written by a lot of different writers over a considerably long period of time (at least 1,000 years) in languages we no longer speak, to situations and people that have long since passed into history. It doesn't - and can't - mean for us what it meant to the people who first heard it. Everytime you pick up an English translation of the Bible, you're picking up an interpretation by someone else of what the Bible says (all translation is at least 50% interpretation.)

So yes, it can be both.
 
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Either it is the Word of God, a perfect reflection of the mind, intent and will of God, expressing only one meaning; or, "it's only as good as how one interprets it" -- meaning we can make it mean whatever we want it to mean.

Or it could be that the word of God has been misunderstood.

You've made up your mind beforehand that the Christian interpretation must be defeated, and the Bible deconstructed to fit your preconceived ideas.

Likewise you've made up your mind that the anti-homosexuality argument is the "Christian" one.

The issue is really one of inspiration, infallibility, inerrancy and authority. Either God is God, or man is God. This is what the debate is ultimately all about.

Or maybe it is that man does not truly understand God.
 
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Disagree. It's a collection of writings of Moses and his scribes.

And you're entitled to your opinion. But I still don't think there's anything in the Davidic legends that show any awareness of the Levitical law, and evidently it kept getting lost and refound again.
 
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One of the major streams in Leviticus (the Priestly Torah) is difficult to date, but likely predates the exile, at least in an incomplete form, and was edited during the early exile into its more or less final form (say around 580 BCE). The other major stream, the Holiness School, comes from the late exilic period (530ish), and comprises mostly the material from chapters 17-26, though they also supplemented the other material as well. So no, David certainly didn't have access to Leviticus as we know it today.
 
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