Someone the other day did not like what I said in a thread called "If you have to remain single the rest of your life". And their attempt at understanding my satement was in error. So, to help I have decided after praying and talking to a moderator to define a few phases, and the one that cause the main problem.
Once a person is born in this world, they will take one of three paths.
The first path, is for those who see the light of God and embraces it. It may happen the first time or they may need to bath in the light a few time before accepting the truth. And in this person life, if they die before God returns then they die with God. Aka "Death with God".
The second path is for those who has heard of God but have decided to remain out of the light. Even though it is their choice it is still very sad that this person will learn when its too late (judgment day) that they should have taken the walk into the light. In this case, the death of this person is one who dies without God. Aka "Death without God".
The third path is for those who have never heard the word of God and dies without ever knowing the glory of God. Which means this person never had the chance to accept God and become saved. This may occur because the person is child from unsaved parents and dies before they are able to learn the word. Or second and more likely reason is that a Christian did not testify to this person. In this case, the inaction of this Christian causes Jesus to pay for the Christian's inaction. Which means that Jesus paid for the sin to allowed a person to die without God. And that is a travesty that is called "Worst than Death without God".
We should judge ourself and make sure that we are not a Christian that has or will cause Jesus to pay for such sin.
Now what does this have to do with marriage or being single I may get to that later if from a prayer God allows me to say. And to fully understand what I will say if allowed, you must be a person that is ready for marriage or is seeking a mate for marriage.