TheKeyboardist said:
i know i may seem stupid for asking this question but what exactly is God's will?
No, this is not a stupid question. It is the root of all that I said, and is not easy to discern, sometimes.
I can tell you what I believe that God's will is for me, but even then, I am not absolutely certain, and I definately can not say that it is the same for you.
Well, to some extent, I can tell you some portions of God's will for your life. I believe that God wants everyone to come to faith in Jesus Christ's sacrifice. That after accepting that, that you seek out His will for your life continually.
Not a lot of help. I know.
But I do not think we are supposed to know fully God's will for our life. Or, perhaps a better way to say it, is that we are given His will for our life in parts, and not fully. I do not fully know what God will want me to do, say in 3 years. I am not even ready to know that. It is enough to understand what His will is for my life now. Sometimes that is not all too clear to me.
But, He does let us know, if we truly seek it out. He knows our heart, and He knows what its intentions are. As we come to Him in prayer, He hears our requests, and provides for us the answers to that question, "what is your will for my life?" It takes patience on our behalf, and also a willingness to do that which He tells us. We also have to believe that He really will answer us.
Sometimes, when His will for my life is confusing to me, I will fast and pray for a while, to seek out His will. He has never failed to honor such a thing, and this last time, answered me right away (sometimes it is weeks afterwards). I may be extreme in this, but it really does matter that much to me, and I would do anything to make sure that I am walking as He would have me walk.
Also, the scriptures can be a way that He shows us His will for our lives. When I first was born again (12 years ago), I read the New Testament straight through. I would pray in the morning before work, and when I would come home and read, He would answer my prayers in what I read. It happened so much, that I knew that this was not a coincidence. I was a baby who needed milk, and He provided amply what I needed. Also, He encouraged my reading of the Bible through this. It really is the word of God, and with the Holy Spirit in you, He will speak to you through it.
These days, it is not as frequent, but it still happens. I just read through the Bible, and trust Him to point out the things that I need to grow in Him. It is amazing that after reading it so much, that I still come across new things in it frequently.
Also, God can use other believers to help you grow in Him. I guess I am a little more cautious about saying this, these days, for I have encountered bad fellowship that has hurt my walk. But that does not shadow the good fellowship and the growth that I have gained, as the Holy Spirit guides a fellow brother or sister to help me discern God's will for my life. We need to be wary, but innocent in these matters.
I really believe that we are given God's will for our lives in parts, because He wants to be a part of our lives each and every day. It is not like I can learn His will, and then not need Him anymore, because I have my task set before me. Instead, it is like the daily gathering of manna that the sons of Israel were commanded to perform. We need Him every day of our lives, for guidance, for protection, for all of the things that He does. I am astounded at God's love in this, because He wants to be a part of my life. I have not met another person on this world who wants to be so intimate and close to me.
Ask Him, and He will give, seek Him and you will find. Trust that His promises are true, and you will not be disappointed. If the answer does not come right away, then do not lose hope, but hold on to faith that He will not let you down. He really will not, because He is truly trustworthy beyond anything that exists in this world.
John