Dealbreakers

[Tinkerbell33]

No, this is not a thread where you discuss what your dealbreakers are, this is for stating whether you think that someone would look at one of your traits or at your situation as a dealbreaker.

So?

 

[Wren]

I will not be giving birth to any children (although I am open to adoption) and I'm no domestic goddess.

I do wonder if those two things, especially the first, would be deal breakers for a lot of guys.

 

[sweetlambofgod]

I think there is things about everyone that could be deal breakers to some one out there.

 

[Tinkerbell33]

I think there is things about everyone that could be deal breakers to some one out there.

Yeah, true.

 

[.Mikha'el.]

At my age, I am not on my own yet, and still don't have a driver's license. Definite dealbreakers.

 

[mina]

my family is crazy

 

[LostFound1986]

Actually that made me think, since I live with my family currently that could be a dealbreaker. Its really common at the moment, especially during the recession. But I don't think girls would be very impressed with someone like me who lives at home It'll change one day!!

 

[Wren]

my family is crazy

So is mine, but I like to think that won't be a deal breaker.

 

[mina]

i hope it won't but for some people it would be

 

[puffca]

I'm short. (5'6")

I'm socially awkard. (So I may embarrass my wife during public events by my choice of words, or the lack thereof. I'm smart and sensitive though, so it won't be a disaster. But still, I won't blame if it's taken as a dealbreaker.)

I'm not rich now. (I know for some women this is a dealbreaker and I'm willing to understand that.)

I eat meat. (I respect and love vegetarians more than meat eaters, but that doesn't always mean they will return the favor.)

I want bio children. (Oops, never thought this could be a dealbreaker for marriage. But, obviously it could. at Historia.)

...

Some of these traits are what I intend to improve, some are what I am unable to or don't want to.

 

[EazyMack]

Lol... I have quite a few, depending on the taker.

But if the taker isn't concerned with the past, and understands the kind of relationship I want (I aim high), we'd be alright.

 

[nbiol]

My past. The fact that I used to be a cheater...many people think "Once a cheater, always a cheater. Not getting into that mess."

And believe me, it's happened.

 

[Windmill]

I'm short. (5'6")

I'm socially awkard. (So I may embarrass my wife during public events by my choice of words, or the lack thereof. I'm smart and sensitive though, so it won't be a disaster. But still, I won't blame if it's taken as a dealbreaker.)

I'm not rich now. (I know for some women this is a dealbreaker and I'm willing to understand that.)

I eat meat. (I respect and love vegetarians more than meat eaters, but that doesn't always mean they will return the favor.)

I want bio children. (Oops, never thought this could be a dealbreaker for marriage. But, obviously it could. at Historia.)

...

Some of these traits are what I intend to improve, some are what I am unable to or don't want to.

5'6" isn't actually too short- there are plenty of girls shorter than that (like me)

 

[Windmill]

No, this is not a thread where you discuss what your dealbreakers are, this is for stating whether you think that someone would look at one of your traits or at your situation as a dealbreaker.

So?

A lot of people wouldn't like my religious beliefs, so that might be a deal breaker.

I like to do "lite debates". They aren't debates but if someone says something I disagree with theres a good chance I'll challenge them. Its just for fun and for bouncing around ideas but loads understandably don't like that.

I'm not a particular pretty girl... my face is starting to also get acne scars so thats probably a deal breaker.

I don't put much effort into my appearance... probably a dealbreaker.

I am very sarcastic, which some people don't like.

I'm not fit, either. I'm very unfit. I'm thin but I'm not fit.

I am not very social. I'm social with people I know but if I don't have someone I know well with me and/or I feel like I'm being judged, I'm not social.

I only got my learners license.

I'm not popular.

I refuse to have children. Huge dealbreaker.

I refuse to give up on my life plans and go and settle down in the suburbs. Another huge dealbreaker.

 

[Wren]

I can see how being 5'6" could seem like a possible deal breaker, a lot of women do seem to prefer tall (over 6ft) guys. I'm not most women though and being short is a bonus, not a deal breaker.

 

[AuburnMeg]

For guys that are older than me, I can see where me still being in school could be a dealbreaker.

 

[Windmill]

Well most women prefer to be shorter than the guy, but if he's too tall, kissing would be hard...

 

[puffca]

5'6" isn't actually too short- there are plenty of girls shorter than that (like me)

Yeah, but things are different when all I want are girls taller than me.



j/k

No, I don't have that preference.
But, it is still a dealbreaker for many. I used to go to a Chinese dating site where half of the girls shorter than me want a guy at least taller than 1.7m. I'm not complaining, just a fact.

 

[overit]

Hmmm...well, I'm a always trying to quit smoker. I'm a liberal I am a single mom....

Other then those I'm pretty normal, nice family, decent job, have my own home...no tons of quirks

 

[Tinkerbell33]

I wish that I hadn't made this thread, seems kind of negative to me lol. Sorry guys.