Dating

[mwb]

I've never been married & am still looking for someone. I think the best place to meet women that I may have something in common is at work. However, I'm not working now & the companies I have worked for do no have many single women available.

Other places I've tried include employees at the grocery store & the health club. The grocery store idea was promising but a girl I liked only seemed interested in talking while she was working. This was difficult since she is dealing with customers. I really didn't like having to interrupt her at work & she wasn't willing to talk outside of work. The health club idea has promise too. There is one woman I would like to talk to but she seems very focused on her workout. Plus, I'm hesistant on approaching someone I know nothing about. At least if someone I trust introduces me to a woman, I know a little about her. This girl at the health club is a complete mystery.

So nice single women-where can you be found? Where do you like to be approached? Now that you are in your 30's, what kind of guy are you looking for? Should I worry because I'm currently unemployed? Should I wait until I have a job or should I hope that someone will accept me for who I am as a person?

 

[puppy]

i would personally choose to date someone away from work that you might not see everyday unless your dating them of course, if you choose someone at work and things dont work out it might cause a difficult situation later on, what do you think ?

 

[mwb]

Dating a co-worker can be difficult, especially if you work closely with this person. I think if it's taken slow & honesty is there, it's not as difficult if things don't work out. However, I think dating a co-worker can be a positive experience since you know who they are & what they are about since you spend so much time with them.

 

[BeautyForAshes]

I have no answers. lol

Every man I have met that is in his thirties are newly divorce, in the process of getting a divorce, or seperated. In all of the situation, they are looking for a "friend with benefits" (hey - at least they were honest in the beginning).

I would avoid dating a co-worker because if it doesn't work out, then things can be awkward. In my own life, aside from work (where I spend 10 hours a day), I'm at the gym, church, or hanging out with friends/family somewhere (ex. Barnes & Nobles).

I will say this, if you see someone that you would like to get to know better, don't be shy and let the opportunity get away. If you approach a woman in a nice manner (and not with some cheesy line) she shouldn't be offended that you asked for her number.

 

[JulianaTheory]

Have you checked into a church who offers a single's group? There are some really interesting ones around here. They do lots of activities together and it gives you the chance to really get to know how people interact without the stress of seeing someone one on one.

 

[JPPT1974]

Not dating just yet
I either love to be independent and love my freedom
As well as also it is God's will for me to find the right man or to stay single.

 

[Im-revived]

Im alone, single, divorced, and need a friend!

Im-revived

 

[JPPT1974]

I am not currently dating
But loving it
Since I love being single!

 

[AJPM]

Im single but i wish i had a guy friend to hang out with. I like being single, i tried to date but im not as ready as i thought i was. Scary out there. The friends w/ benifits seems to be quite popular. I told a guy about my beliefs on that and he didnt believe me that i would wait till i get married. Scary what pple in this world think is the norm.

 

[Im-revived]

Looking but not suceeding at present!!!!!!!!

 

[JPPT1974]

I am not looking
Since I love being single
As well as loving my freedom & independence.