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Basically this...I guess i was a balance. I made myself avaliable but I wasn't out there dating anything that moved. I didn't hide away and chastise others for dating either. I kept my eyes open and if someone interested me then I tried to get to know them. The times when I really wasn't doing anything were when I really wasn't interested in anyone I knew. I did pray for wisdom and guidance to the right person, but I didn't reject any opportunity to get to know the opposite sex. I think that presents more of a challenge than a help. There were lots of times where i wasn't that interested in people and it felt like i wasn't doing anything or nothing was happening..... I just tried to be the right kind of person and live my life.
...okay, so I've seen you get some crap for your preferences...but I just love this!I do both, but try to do more of the latter than the former; I've always bumped into the right girl for me at the right time and I attribute that to Heaven.
So I'm very thankful to the Father for the beautiful women he's laid before me, they always seem to be almost exactly along the details of what I want at the time too. lol
It's funny, because traingosorry was talkin' about how I should find an Indian girl to make me some fine East Indian mealslol, I was like, I really should...
lol yeah, I know. She ... nevermind.
My girlfriend doesn't eat meat, so idk, I'd be makin' the meals for myself most of the timewhich is fine by me. I love cooking, I did a lot of the cooking with my last relationship as well. I love cooking together though, that makes me go
It's a lot easier for women to take that stance. Men in the church are expected to do the leading and initiating, and you can't initiate too well if you're waiting for something that looks like divine approval. We're expected to somehow wait for God and yet still initiate, while being mindful of lessons of people like Abraham getting with Hagar because he and Sarah thought they needed to take a more active role in claiming God's promise for a son and how that turned out.I have taken the stance of saying 'God will bring it to me when I'm ready'.
Thank you.that question exists only for girls lol. There's no force, be it God or otherwise, that is gonna "bless" a guy just waiting around.
Sometimes I wish I could sit back and wait for the returns on my own good looks like women can.
Yeah, a lot of them get away with so much for doing so little... it's ridiculous.
I am surprised you say like this. I think there are very very few girls that have success in getting attention from guys by doing few things. I think most girls put a lot of effort into getting some attention.
I am surprised you say like this. I think there are very very few girls that have success in getting attention from guys by doing few things. I think most girls put a lot of effort into getting some attention.
(honestly? I think most of what girls do as far as beauty and such is about other girls and social things and not about guys at all... but that's just my take)
I think there was something missed in translation here, but here allow me to elaborate; over here, there's a lot of spoiled girls who get what they want (including my current girlfriend) by being a brat. So, their looks offer them more privileges at times is what I'm getting at.
Like, and I can admit this, I wouldn't put up with this kind of behavior from a girl whom I don't find as attractive.
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