he treated me well and we got along really well but was it right for me to end it because we were unequally yoked.
Of course, there is the question of why you find you were unequally yoked. Because - - - your own character can have a lot to do with who you can connect with. So, if he has not been right, but you were able to connect with him, it is possible you also have issues to deal with. And even if you are somehow deeply alike, this does not automatically mean you belong with each other.
Treating each other well can mean you are helping one another to get what you want. You could be only using each other, and Jesus says,
"if you love those who love you, what reward have you?" in Matthew 5:46.
And I offer how God's love does not have us only or mainly using any person. But we care tenderly for each and every person . . . more and more as we grow in Jesus.
So, if you get pretty much isolated with only one person, this is not growing and developing as family with Jesus Christ's different people whom we need to help us. So, you both need to be more concerned about having people who help you get more real with God. And this includes how we need to share with our mature senior examples who have been in the faith for much longer than we have.
There are what I call love idols > ones we make too much of a deal out of. We need to humble ourselves and humble those who are closely involved with us.
I prayed for months that God will help me change him.
If you were supposing you your own self could have so much to do with helping him, possibly you got fooled; he said what he said but did he do what he should have meant?
If he is not interested in sharing with mature senior examples of Jesus, he is not likely really concerned about real change, I consider. And his actions seem to show there was something else going on.
I kept the relationship going because I felt that maybe God will use me to change him and maybe he is "the one" and I shouldn't focus on his flaws pls help
If he is not sharing as family with various good Christian example people, possibly he has more of a problem than a few flaws.
But months later he is saying am too spiritual
And what might he be wanting to use you to get? What is your being spiritual keeping him from getting? Love does not have us only using people for what we want.
Also, I think that if you were really spiritual, you would be much more interested in sharing with mature Christian example people whom you would be seeking to help you your own self get more real with God and finding out how to relate as family of Jesus.
Possibly, you need to evaluate what made you able to get involved with him. It is possible, that you need to get wise to whatever an unspiritual person could use to get you interested in him. You need to become attracted by what godly and spiritual people offer.
And, of course, immorality is wrong. If you stayed out of this, good for you
But there are men who say a woman is so good for them, but they are fishing to get immoral with them . . . while they might also be going after what they want, with other women.
If you get real with Jesus, yourself, you do not need to compromise in order to get companionship. Possibly, there are things you need to change so you can connect with a godly person
You can do well to share, maybe in groups, with other younger people - - - ones who are spiritual and godly . . . and feed on what they have to say about what they value and how God is correcting them and teaching them and maturing them.
And you can discover how love is, in sharing with gentle and quiet and humble people. I am betting you will discover love which is much better for you
> this is family love which makes us gentle and quiet in spirit, so also we are pleasing our Heavenly Father, in His love's
"incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God." (in 1 Peter 3:4)