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Cradle Of Filth Problem

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...back on subject. I still dont like Cradel of Filth but my brother brought in wrose guys then this, I found out why he didnt tell me, this is what happen, He use to think they sucked but now he kinda dose like them, I think he was more enbaressed that he ended up likeing a band he use to hate. I wish he would of just told me from the start because then I ended up Thinking COF was so evil that they were like Mayhem. I still dont like the band because of the Juesu shirt and few other things but oh well, free speech.
 
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so, (i'm just trying to understand you here) your issue isn't really with Cradle of Filth correct? it's more with the fact that he in some way lied to you?

i would maybe just try to constantly (not saying you aren't doing this, i really don't know, but i assume you probably are at your best) to make him know that he's more than welcome to tell you of the changes of the bands that he goes through and to also not be afraid of mentioning what bands he does like.
 
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Yeah, thats more it. The moment I cought I him in lie made the band look worse becuse I thought he was hiding it from because it was like Mahyem. (The guys that actully killed each other and were vary vary evil in real life) If he had just bin open with me from start it would not have bin a big deal I probly would not have made this thread. Thanks for your help.
 
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your welcome

and, (i apologized if i missed this in your OP, or any other posts) but is your brother younger than you?

now as far as i know, COF has done nothing like Mayhem, but i mean they have that whole "shock" thing. i mean honestly, i don't know that much about COF. i have only heard a few songs of theirs and i think sound awful(just not my taste in metal by any means. i'm not even a huge black metal fan, but there are some black metal bands i enjoy but i just don't care for their music at all.) but with the whole shock thing they seem brilliant at, and especially if he's younger than you, i'm not sa ying this is the case by any means, and i'm not saying assume it either, but keep in mind the possibility of the younger and bigger brother thing
 
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I know this may not be an easy thing to hear, but the fact your brother felt the need to lie to you probably says more about your relationship with your brother than his with the bands and their music. It suggest he sees you as some one that is not to be reasoned with. now from what I’ve seen of you on this thread (and admittedly that's not much), this seems to be an unfair image of you, but what is important is why he holds it.

You need to examine how your relationship with your brother works and try to understand both how he sees you and why he sees you that way.

None of this means I condone what he did. The computer was yours, and therefore the rules of its use are yours, by downloading something you specifically asked him not to on a machine that belongs to you, he was in the wrong, whatever his reasons.

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i don't know if i've ever heard them,what do they sing? funny but i laugh at the name of this band...

I'm not sure you caould call it singing. Growling, snarling, yelling, screaming like some one kicked them in the goolies, these are things you could call it, but singing? Not so much!
 
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Cradle of Filth is not satanic. They have said in interviews that they have nothing to do with the occult. They just have lyrics that reflect on the darker side of life, both physically and metaphysically. As a Christian with musical experience, (both Christian and secular,) can say that you don't have a "Cradle of Filth problem."
 
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Danni Filth is not a satanic or athist the songs are not satanic ideas for songs and lyrics are inspired by historical events people and old horror stories including the works of E.A Poe. Being a christian and a CoF fan and having meet Danni i can say he is a nice very well read and highly intelengent person
 
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