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Put in my 2 cents. I couldn't take being over in that forum for long. It made me sick.

Wow. I am almost speechless. This subject hurts me so much as my mother was forced to have an abortion as a teen for a mistaken pregnancy long before she was saved. I know the physical and mental damage it did to her and it hurts me as well. Because of the medical issues caused by the abortion, I nearly died at birth and lived my life as an only child.
Don't get me wrong, God has blessed me richly and I have seen both parents saved. But this issues still makes me weary.
I'm so sorry...((hugs)) that is really traumatic both emotionally and physically...and I understand the grief.
I think often times in these conversations we fail to mention...not necessarily fail to consider...that there is forgiveness and sympathy for those women who feel they have no choice in aborting their babies....
...and for those women such as your mother...the grief is so magnified by being forced into such a heart breaking decision.
Praise God for His grace and tender mercies toward you and your parents.
There's one argument that I loathe hearing, and that's the whole "abortion is actually much safer than delivery".
What a load of crud. If that were truly the case, there'd be far more women who couldn't have children again because they delivered...whereas there are plenty of women (I know many myself) who cannot conceive now because of an earlier abortion.
And hey, if we really wanted to boil that argument down to its simplest terms, we should just kill everyone because life would be safer that way.
Abortion is a strong subject for me as well, since I'm adopted. While my birth mother was going back and forth around whether she wanted to keep me or not, the idea of an abortion was mentioned to her. Fortunately, that was never an option for her. If I ever do meet her, I plan on giving her a big hug and saying THANK YOU to her.
Its really hard to find people who are actually grateful to their birth mothers for being given up for adoption.
I'm glad you are not angry or resentful to her.
I owe a big part of that to my upraising. My parents never lied to me, and I always knew I was adopted. So there was never that Lifetime Movie bombshell moment when they dropped the news to me, thankfully. My mom always told me that I was special because God picked me out for her.![]()
