Certainly. We are not given the reason why specific individuals are chosen for life and others for death. Scripture does not provide us with God's "thinking process" concerning individuals. What we are told is that every single person without exception is a sinner deserving the wrath of God. God would be justified in condemning. What the Scriptures do reveal is that God has decided to set His love on a group of people for His glory. This decision on who is chosen for life is completely dependent on God and is not dependent on something special in the individual, even God looking down through time to see who would choose Him. In fact, it is not our decision that makes us chosen, we decide to believe in Christ BECAUSE God has chosen us for life.
A simple formula I have heard is that:
A. All who repent and confess Christ as Lord will be saved.
B. I (or you as you claim) have repented and confessed Christ.
C. Therefore I (or you) are saved
Again, the fact that we do confess Christ is an effect of our being chosen by God. The fact that we are growing in Christ, bearing godly fruit, desiring to know Christ, a hatred for our sin, etc. are a result of our believing in Christ.
So I ask, do you desire to know Christ? Are you growing in the faith (in doctrine and works)? Do you hate your sin? If you can honestly say yes to these things then you can claim to have genuine faith in Christ. If you can claim to have genuine faith in Christ, and only those that have faith in Christ are saved, then you can claim to be saved, and only the ones God has chosen to save will be saved.
I hope this helps clarify instead of brings on more confusion.