confused and heartbroken

[heartbroken123456]

Two years ago I fel in love with a guy in a relationship, we had a baby and then his girlfriend found out. I love him very much and he and I have been in an on and off relationship for the past cuople of months. He has no relationship with our baby.

When I found out his girlfriend uses superficial means like herbs and spells to keep him. I started doing the same. It hasnt changed our relationship he still sees me when he wants sex but I love him so much I would die for him.

I dont know what to do, I do know that god exists and it is against him to use spells and potions, I dont know how to stop myself. I have tried and try praying but dont get past the first sentenc cos I feel so guilt.

 

[GeorgeWW]

Praying for you.
God is bigger than all your problems, concerns, and issues.
God is bigger than your relationship issues.
He loves you more than anyone else in the world could.

"Whoever does not love, does not know God, because God is love." 1 John 4:8

 

[gennaoanothen]

Two years ago I fel in love with a guy in a relationship, we had a baby and then his girlfriend found out. I love him very much and he and I have been in an on and off relationship for the past cuople of months. He has no relationship with our baby.

When I found out his girlfriend uses superficial means like herbs and spells to keep him. I started doing the same. It hasnt changed our relationship he still sees me when he wants sex but I love him so much I would die for him.

I dont know what to do, I do know that god exists and it is against him to use spells and potions, I dont know how to stop myself. I have tried and try praying but dont get past the first sentenc cos I feel so guilt.

God would know better, who should be your spouse, probably this is not the one.
Call upon God and ask Him to send the right person into your life, a person that would be best for you, and your child. and then trust in God that He shall send the right person, whom God would send.

 

[heron]

First of all, congratulations on your toddler! You must be exhausted, even though this is such a fun age.

May God work through this situation.

It's kind of ironic, that with two people using spells, the situation is torn and divided -- even if you found were power in it, the power did not work out for the good of anyone. Maybe you could think in that direction of sensibility -- whether trying to control the situation will really get needed results.

Like spells in the movies -- "you can ask for anything, but can't make someone love you." Not that he doesn't. But control can get so messy.

Lord, bring wisdom.

I would pray that you would get the man, but what you describe doesn't sound like someone who will treat you well, no matter how much you love him. It might be God's grace to you, how timing and circumstances have worked out. Short term pain can often lead to long term improvements.

(Sorry to critique when I should be praying.)

Heavenly father, bring a loving people into this child's life, people who will help provide for both mother and child. You know what a difficult position she is in, and how confusing life can be when it involves more people and responsibility. Bring happiness, contentment, and create a good life for heartbroken.

You can make all things new.

 

[Stormy]

Two years ago I fel in love with a guy in a relationship, we had a baby and then his girlfriend found out. I love him very much and he and I have been in an on and off relationship for the past cuople of months. He has no relationship with our baby.

When I found out his girlfriend uses superficial means like herbs and spells to keep him. I started doing the same. It hasnt changed our relationship he still sees me when he wants sex but I love him so much I would die for him.

I dont know what to do, I do know that god exists and it is against him to use spells and potions, I dont know how to stop myself. I have tried and try praying but dont get past the first sentenc cos I feel so guilt.

Do not run away from the guilt. It can lead you to your salvation. Keep praying.

I am sorry that things are not working out for you in the love department right now. Perhaps it is time to move on? You have so much love to give.. give a little of it to yourself.


I will pray for you and your child. .

 

[EternalSummer]

Have you thought about pursuing a relationship with God? He is the perfect companion, best friend and lover (in a spiritual way) to our souls. As your trust in Him grows you will feel less lonely and desperate for the attention of a man, and as you grow in faith feeding upon the Word (scriptures, the Bible) you will gain more confidence in yourself, making you better able to pursue healthier relationships with others free from fear and dependency. As you increase in trusting God you will also come to realize you don\'t need spells and charms to bring you good things or help you in life because He will be your help and your strength.

A personal relationship with Him is the most amazing gift we can ever receive in this world. If you\'d like help with some simple ways to get started pursuing one, feel free to write back here or send me a private message.

May God bless you and ease your loneliness and heartache.

 

[Misterunderstood]

Fezjesus? is that something you wear on your head?

 

[HonorTheAncestors]

I shall offer sacrifice to freyja for you misunderstood,
True your relation was not at first honest, but the fact is, it is beyond you now. You must not only look at your own want, but what you want for your baby. It is not only your life in the struggle, but do you want your baby to grow up fatherless? Ask him. And maybe find strength to accept the fact he may not be man enough to step up and be a father.

 

[god-loves-me-long-time]

You should get him to pay child support, and then move on to find another man or maybe take some time to feel happy with yourself before you try to enter another relationship.

No god required!

 

[jehovahway]

Two years ago I fel in love with a guy in a relationship, we had a baby and then his girlfriend found out. I love him very much and he and I have been in an on and off relationship for the past cuople of months. He has no relationship with our baby.

When I found out his girlfriend uses superficial means like herbs and spells to keep him. I started doing the same. It hasnt changed our relationship he still sees me when he wants sex but I love him so much I would die for him.

I dont know what to do, I do know that god exists and it is against him to use spells and potions, I dont know how to stop myself. I have tried and try praying but dont get past the first sentenc cos I feel so guilt.

From what you said this person is using you ,Dont have sex with somebody you are not married to.
Your asking for trouble and also you will bring demon spirits into your life.
they will control you and him also.
What i would do even thought i would not have sex outside of marriage anyway.your asking for trouble if we do that.
Just tell the Father God your sorry for doing things against his laws and then ask him to bring into your life one he choses,not who you think you need.
Father in the name of your dear son i request angels be asigned to this
sweet person to ward off demon spirits and lead her where you wont her to be.
Bring into her life your chosen for her life,she will always love her child,
But she need a person THAT LOVE'S HER AS MUCH AS YOU DO.
Do not break God's laws to find happyness it does not work satan will always be there to offer you a sub for real love.
Just ask the father to do for you what he see's best to do
Love on the Father and son more than other thing's and he will place you where you can be happy both you and your baby.

 

[liftmeup]

First you MUST stop using spells and herbs. That is witchcraft and is of the enemy. You are opening yourself and the other three parties concerned, up to all kinds of disaster. Heartbreak might be the least of your worries soon. Stop it immediately and ask God's forgiveness. You are finding it difficult because it is holding you in bondage. You are creating all kinds of ungodly bondage which will need to be broken by the Holy Spirit. Please join a church and accept Christ.
You've made a mistake - quite a big one - but guess what, we all have. The good news is that God's love is unconditional and He's waiting for you to approach Him. You will not regret it, you will not look back, you will find peace, joy and love which is exactly what the current situation will never bring you (since it is of the enemy) and everything you need. I'll say a prayer for you. God bless.

 

[bluwaterz]

I will stand in prayer with you. God bless you

Two years ago I fel in love with a guy in a relationship, we had a baby and then his girlfriend found out. I love him very much and he and I have been in an on and off relationship for the past cuople of months. He has no relationship with our baby.

When I found out his girlfriend uses superficial means like herbs and spells to keep him. I started doing the same. It hasnt changed our relationship he still sees me when he wants sex but I love him so much I would die for him.

I dont know what to do, I do know that god exists and it is against him to use spells and potions, I dont know how to stop myself. I have tried and try praying but dont get past the first sentenc cos I feel so guilt.