Confused about it

ka393 · Jan 13, 2009

So me and my boyfriend were discussing alot of things and specially sex and other things related to it. We are both Christians and we are going to wait until marriage. Anyways..while discussing things , he told me something about anal sex and stuff..and I was a bit shocked because I for some reason thought that was a sin ( I think I read it somewhere on a Christian site) and I dont approve of it because its sick , well at least to me it is. I just wanna make sure if its a sin or not? Either way I wont allow it and he understands..but I would like to know whats right.

Thanks.

explodingboy · Jan 13, 2009

Well its not a sin, rather a personal choice and preference.

If I recall correctly as long as its just you and significant other there aren't any sexual acts that class as a sin.

MrsSeptemberPenguin · Jan 13, 2009

I personally feel it is. I guess within the confines of marriage I see it as personal conviction, but outside of marriage "anal sex" has "sex" in the title for a reason, and therefore to me it falls into the same categories as any other type of sex.

Justaman0000 · Jan 13, 2009

In God's eyes it is wrong. He did not intend that a man put his penis in his wife's or anyone elses anus. That is why he created the vagina. It does not make any sense to have anal sex. It is a fetish, and an unnatural way to have sexual intercouse.

The Nihilist · Jan 13, 2009

Justaman0000 said:
In God's eyes it is wrong. He did not intend that a man put his penis in his wife's or anyone elses anus. That is why he created the vagina. It does not make any sense to have anal sex. It is a fetish, and an unnatural way to have sexual intercouse.

Nonsense. If anal sex is immoral because it's unnatural, then kneeling is equally immoral. The knees are clearly terrible for sitting around, it's what your duff is for.

Blank123 · Jan 13, 2009

sex outside mariage *is* sin, whether or not you would choose to allow that within marriage down the road is between the two of you, personally i don't remember any Bible verses speaking about the subject for or against which would tell me its up to you to decide what you're comfortable with.

Luther073082 · Jan 14, 2009

It is not sin inside of marriage. However if you are uncomfortable with it then you shouldn't do it.

Doesn't have to be now but definatly before you get married you would have to discuss with him what sexual acts you are ok with and what you are not ok with. (And the same for him)

But really when its inside marriage and its just the two of you, there are no real limits as to the type of sexual acts you indulge yourselves in.

explodingboy · Jan 15, 2009

Justaman0000 said:
In God's eyes it is wrong. He did not intend that a man put his penis in his wife's or anyone elses anus. That is why he created the vagina. It does not make any sense to have anal sex. It is a fetish, and an unnatural way to have sexual intercouse.

Thats er, pretty victorian..

Missonary only went out of style a long time ago.

Windmill · Jan 15, 2009

Its fine as long as its within marriage!

Though plenty of people don't like it, so only do whats comfortable!

Theres no reason that within marriage it'd be a "sin"!

Justaman0000 · Jan 16, 2009

explodingboy said:
Thats er, pretty victorian..

Missonary only went out of style a long time ago.

I never said anything about having sex in only the missionary position. wanna add any more words to my mouth?

invisiblebabe · Jan 17, 2009

It does have the potential to create health problems, including tears and rips in that area.

explodingboy · Jan 19, 2009

Justaman0000 said:
I never said anything about having sex in only the missionary position. wanna add any more words to my mouth?

Depends, do you want me to reinterperit any more of your posts?

xXxKristaxXx · Jan 19, 2009

I think it's a personal preference. I for one wouldent do it but because of the health problems that it could cause.

Cjwinnit · Jan 19, 2009

Quick way to find out: what does the Bible say about it?

waxlion10 · Jan 20, 2009

Cjwinnit said:
Quick way to find out: what does the Bible say about it?

What if the Bible doesn't directly address it?

eatenbylocusts · Jan 20, 2009

The Nihilist said:
Nonsense. If anal sex is immoral because it's unnatural, then kneeling is equally immoral. The knees are clearly terrible for sitting around, it's what your duff is for.

I honestly don't know what the Bible has to say on this subject in regards to a married couple because I just assumed it would be wrong and never had any interest in trying.

There are health issues that could be very serious. The vagina is designed for intercourse, but the rectum isn't. I am not saying this proves it's sinful just that it is not designed for it. I have not done any research as far as numbers on this topic, but as a nurse I have seen the most devastating cases of rectal cancer in relatively young male homosexuals. For some reason some of these men needed very extensive repair that I didn't see in females or the over 60 crowd. It seemed like a larger ratio of this younger crowd needed colostomies because of the extent of the cancer also. I can't help but wonder if anal sex was the reason for this or just coincidince Maybe it wouldn't be an issue if it was a rare thing, but of course the E. coli is always something to be reckoned with.

Windmill · Jan 20, 2009

If you enter into the marriage ministry, you'll find plenty of couples dabbling in it.

Theres nothing wrong in it, but just that it can pose some health risks.

In actual fact, there are nerves or something around there that are very sensitive and sexually stimulating, so if you believe in design, then it was designed to play some part in sex.

buddy_holly · Jan 20, 2009

I haven't read anything saying that it is wrong or immoral inside the confines oof marriage.

Beyond that, it is just a personal preference thing.

Ladielissa · Jan 28, 2009

eatenbylocusts said:
I honestly don't know what the Bible has to say on this subject in regards to a married couple because I just assumed it would be wrong and never had any interest in trying.

There are health issues that could be very serious. The vagina is designed for intercourse, but the rectum isn't. I am not saying this proves it's sinful just that it is not designed for it. I have not done any research as far as numbers on this topic, but as a nurse I have seen the most devastating cases of rectal cancer in relatively young male homosexuals. For some reason some of these men needed very extensive repair that I didn't see in females or the over 60 crowd. It seemed like a larger ratio of this younger crowd needed colostomies because of the extent of the cancer also. I can't help but wonder if anal sex was the reason for this or just coincidince Maybe it wouldn't be an issue if it was a rare thing, but of course the E. coli is always something to be reckoned with.

I am a nurse as well and I have an ex-boyfriend who is an oncologist. He has brought up the same points when we have had this debate in our Bible study in the past. Glad to see I am not the only one thinking about the E.Coli either!

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