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Compromising for his porn use..

Dave-W

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Bad idea from the get-go. Especially since this is long distance, now he gets some actual sex and just has to hide ongoing porn use.

You are getting used in this. IMO he probably thinks your attitude toward sex and porn are just old and irrelevant. He is welcoming you to his world.
 
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The fact that he is okay with you compromising your morals to please him is alarming. It shows he is selfish and only out for his own desires. That is not love.

Never compromise your relationship with God to please another person. One relationship is fleeting while the other is not.
 
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