College Life Group

[superdave]

I am attending a bible study-thing called a Life Group- and this Life Group has 7 single college girls. They all desire a relationship with a Godly Guy- but I am sooo darn shy- everytime I leave- I am like, "Why didn't I talk to one of them?!" What can I do to get over this???? I share during the group and they all like my sense of humor. And I really like this one girl- she's perfect....

 

[Pope Gonzo]

I know this isn't the response you're looking for, but just suck it up and talk to her. I mean, you should pray for strength and everything, but focus on being a Godly man. But at the same time, be a man and just talk to her

 

[Jae XVI]

Chhhh, what good is that Gonzo?

I'll give you an answer you want to hear, superdave!

If you wear a white beanie, she'll come talk to you and you won't have to do any work. I guarantee!

 

[Rebel4Christ]

I agree with Gonzo, just talk to her but most importantly be the Godly man and be yourself.

 

[Deamiter]

In my life I've always found that talking to girls is MUCH easier when you're not looking for a relationship. Girls are worth so much more than simply dating, and even though this is no great revelation, you might consider swearing off dating for a while. You need time to find out who you are (couple years at a university perhaps?) as an adult before you can know who would fit with you.

And this coming from a guy who screwed up with women more times than you'd want to hear about. Perhaps you will simply blow me off, but perhaps not?

 

[superdave]

UPDATE:

I actually talked to her for the first time today- it wasn't much but we had a conversation. It's gonna take a lot f work

 

[Living4Him03]

building a relationship takes work...friendship or whatever else it is

 

[Living4Him03]

uh oh...only guys posted here...if you meant this for guys then disregard the above I"m trying to be good so i dont get banned

 

[superdave]

No I would like some female input in it.