coincidence?

[Kostilaks]

I was feeling tired with bad mood due to ocd. We had a meeting with friends about a project and as I was relaxing, I fantasized that I am sending a message to a friend in facebook, asking if we should cancel it for today. something like that. some seconds, later, I heard the sound of facebook message. I automatically got a thought like " what if that friend is asking if we should cancel it? i will be worried" I am worryying because automatically when thinking about coincidences, my mind is like " what if it is a bad sign from a God about your ocd" It was a message from that friend that i was imagining. she was telling me that she was not feeling well and she is tired but she never typed about canceling it. I freaked and I phone her. i asked her like if she was planning to tell me to cancel it. she said yes. and i freaked. i mean, i was tired. i imagined about sending to that friend and ask her if we should cancel it and some seconds later, she sends a message planning to ask to cancel it. when I heard the sound before reading the message, my mind was like "what if the message is from that friend I was thhinking and she is asking me to cancel it? what if it is not a coincidence" and it was accompanied with some bad thoughts. was that just a coincidence?

 

[Tolworth John]

was that just a coincidence?

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Yes it was a coincidence.

You rang a tired friend and ask a question. The friend rather than spend hours talking to you agreed with your request to cancel the project.

It was nothing more than someone too tired to talk agreeing with you.

 

[Kostilaks]

he told me she was planning to ask me when she send the message, just seconds, after I was imagining me sending the message to her.