coffee shops & book stores:)

[mbotz72]

I really never hung out at coffee shops or book stores during H.S b/c there wasn't such a thing in my town or nearby. But I have been spending quite a bit of time at these places with my roommates hanging out and talking, or just going by myself to do homework (it is a lot better than sitting in my room or the library). It is always fun to people watch also and I've noticed some pretty interesting, cute, and intelligent-looking guys.... I'm not saying I go here to boy-hunt, but they are definitely places to maybe pick up guys Any other favorite spots to boy-look, search, watch people?!!

 

[jepvc4]

Parks. Boys like to mountain bike, climb, or go and reflect and think.

So, how would you say a boy at a coffee shop should go about approaching you? Or, how would a boy know he should even approach you?

 

[boilerblues]

But if those guys approach you, isn't it pretty much going to be on the basis of looks alone? Even at church when I see an attractive lady I don't make an effort to approach her until I have a real reason to approach her beyond looks.

 

[TriptychR]

I wish there were more bookstores around here. There's only one that I know of, and it's not really a sit down place.

But if those guys approach you, isn't it pretty much going to be on the basis of looks alone? Even at church when I see an attractive lady I don't make an effort to approach her until I have a real reason to approach her beyond looks.

I can see where you're coming from, but a bookstore also has the advantage of getting a small glimpse of what people may be interested in, by seeing what they read. How can you ever find a reason to approach someone if you never approach them in the first place?

 

[Sinless_angels]

K?? Bookstores....
Is this like an American thing to do...
We hang out at cafes...

 

[Sketcher]

Bookstores in America are getting coffee shops built into them more and more. Also, regular coffee shops are a popular place to read, study, or use your laptop.

 

[JPPT1974]

The Barnes and Noble in my town has a Starbucks as well as a reading place as well.

 

[Sinless_angels]

Well who would have thought ae...
Don't have anything like that in our lil town in NZ..
No-one uses Cafes for studying either.

Bookstores in America are getting coffee shops built into them more and more. Also, regular coffee shops are a popular place to read, study, or use your laptop.

 

[Wild_Fan4Christ]

I never used to hang out at coffee shops either because I didn't like coffee. But I have been hanging out at them more and more along with book stores. Now if I could just get up enough courage to approach a girl. I just never know when to approach one. And if she is studying I don't want to bother her.