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And no Christian would ever be caught dead mocking the wicked, as God’s men in the Bible sometimes did.

I'm not sure what civilization you're living in but the world is full, choke full, of those who mock and ridicule others because of the mocker twisted sense of morality. In fact the Christian world, unfortunately, is full of those who rather than promoting their own view of the gospel, instead seek to belittle the views of others. Have you not read this board and the posts that rather than promoting Christ, demean other peoples understanding of Christ.

That's a sign of weakness and egoism.
 
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People are far more bold on this board than in real life. In reality, yes, most Christians have been convinced that being politically correct and not rebuking sinners in the way to win friends and influence people. The greatest fear in the times for Christians is not being fed to lions, it's being unpopular.
 
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I agree. Revelation 3:14-22 has some very choice words for lukewarm Christians. Nowhere does Christ say that we are to be accomodating to unbelief or be tolerant of evil. However, I don't think that God wants us to kill, torment, or persecute abortion doctors or homosexuals, etc. We are ourselves deserving of death, and it is only through our dependence upon Christ that we are saved from this fate. Jesus himself very openly disagreed with the Pharisees and evil-doers but he did not destroy them (which, of course, he very easily could have done) but preached to them, thus putting the burden upon them to accept his message or not.

Going back to the original complaint of the wimpish nature among Christians, like I said above, I totally agree. We, as Christians, need to have a full understanding that Christ has told us to "take up our cross and follow him" and to despise evil things. Like the Apostles, we Christians need to be prepared to die for our faith if we are called upon to do so, just as Christ died for us. When we accept Christ as our savior and Lord, we truly need to meditate on the question, "are we prepared to accept this cup???" Why should we accomodate or nurture unbelief that leads to destruction? This is wrong on our part, I think. I don't think we should either be wishy-washy in our beliefs or so open as to "call evil good" just for the sake of adding numbers to our pews. Christianity is inebriating and life-changing. We cannot have Christ in us and continue to accomodate the ways of the world . . . but as I said above, this also does not give us license to use evil means (like murder or violence) to reform the world. "Vengeance is mine, sayeth the Lord." However, among Christian communities, sin should NOT be tolerated, and I think Paul gives us some great advice on what we should do to Christians who continue to be lukewarm (1 Cor 5).


I'm so glad to know that you think so highly of my sex.

Personally, I think in the Gospels the strength of women is very apparent. And let's not forget that it was to women that the resurrected Christ first appeared. You can read Luke and see that women were very involved in supporting Christ's ministry, and Christ himself chose a woman to spread his message to the Samaritans. Christ continually showed compassion to women who were pregnant, nursing, and even menstrating (very taboo for a Jewish male!)--*shocking!* It was women who anointed Jesus' feet with perfume, who came to the tomb to anoint his body with spices, and these same women did not shy away from Christ's death on the cross but remained there throughout his agony.

In my own limited life experience I have found that women are far more capable of empathy, compassion, and love than most men, and women throughout history have been willing to be servants and do the common drudgery so despised by men. Christ himself showed these emotions (and he even cried in public!) and was not above asking others for help and support. In this way, Christ comes across to me in his actions as far more "feminine" than "masculine," if you want to use the stereotypical terms. Praise God that Jesus was not stereotypical, otherwise He would have been the conquering warrior Messiah that was so anticipated by Jews during his day!

Again, though, your overall sentiment is spot on: Christians should not be embarrassed by their faith, and we should all openly profess Christ as Lord in our words and actions. Our gender is irrelevant in this regard since we are all one in Christ. God does not expect any less of me than my husband simply because I am female. We are both called to be totally committed to him in thought, word, and deed.


I agree 110%! The world hated Christ, why should we WANT it to like us? Our allegiance is to God, not to the world. I do all that I can to show God's love to non-Christians because people are drawn to love not hate, and it is my hope that they will accept God's love before it's too late. However, I will never sugar-coat or water down my beliefs to make non-Christians feel more comfortable. My biggest concern as of late has been the acceptance of sin among Christian clergy, many of whom do not seem to care about the morality of their flock anymore. Yes, we all sin, but that doesn't mean that we should think that's not a big deal. We are called to be holy and perfect, and it would behoove us to remember that.

Peace in Christ.
 
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LuxPerpetua said:
I don't think that God wants us to kill, torment, or persecute abortion doctors or homosexuals, etc.
I agree with your whole post except for this. God wants us to advocate the government legally executing murderers and homosexuals.


MOD NOTE: Advocating an old testament judiciary system is not against the rules, but you have better be prepared to defend it becuase it is controversial
 
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Goriller said:
I agree with your whole post except for this. God wants us to advocate the government legally.
And I agree with most of what you posted, Goriller, except for this. I am a strong, on-fire Christian, not lukewarm in doctrine. But I am going to leave it up to God what he wants to do in judgment of murderers and homosexuals. As my sis-in-law said, If we kill them we must save them first!
 
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Ditto Newlamb. Nowhere did Christ use physical violence to spread his message. I don't think that we, as Christians, should support non-Christian behavior within our own lifestyles or those of our fellow Christians, but in the words of St. Paul, "What business is it of mine to judge those outside of the church? . . . God will judge those outside" (1 Cor 5:12-13). These are words to at least think upon . . .
 
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O wise one, please enlighten us with your profound wisdom on what you are doing about it?

1. What is your purpose on this earth?
2. Would God agree with you that us Christian wimps are actually nicer than him? Wow, that made my day, I'm actually nicer than God? Wooohooo..!
3. How did you get to your esteemed positioned of judge and jury? I believe the executioner position is filled, but you may want to check into that, as you must also be more than qualified to do that.
4. Please enlighten us poor souls on how to evangelize effectively.

Lastly, I'm probably mistaken, or I've been reading the wrong Bible, but in Matt 11:29-30, Jesus said, ‘Take my yoke upon you and learn from me,… 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.' NIV

But you said "Nice people have less stress." So if my yoke is easy and my burden is light, I must be, according to you, a nice person, and ergo, a Christian wimp. Wonderful.
 
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First thing that should be clarified here is that we are not GOD.

It is not our place to Judge as God does. We are to always use Discretion and Discernment in our judgments. And to maintain a Christ-like behavior. Sure Jesus got angry, when his fathers home was being defiled. But you did not see him as a norm running around acting angry at the world for their sins did you? Actually, just the opposite. Taking an "in your face" attitude is the way of man, Not the way of Christ.

No I do not worry about being liked, The Good Lords Love is enough for me. Actually, I am not even worried about "other" Christians liking me. So that blows that theory.

I simply do not even want to try to assume Gods role of judging hearts. I am here to share his love and his Gospel, not to force anyone to believe or shove it down their thoats. I simply cannot change a mans heart, but my attitude towards him might help God to.

Really bad analogy and thank Goodness you are not in my courtroom, for I would show you just how "soft" this woman can be.

For starters a man that points a finger at other men and in the same hypocritical momment- shows his very own weakness of real wisdom....

Oh BTW - there is no such thing as a "nice" person. Lets not forget, we are ALL sinners and come short of the Glory of God.
 
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While I do believe that much of the "Christian" world, most notedly mainline and even a good deal of evangelical Protestantism,has become far too accomodating and concerned with not offending anyone, I think as other posters have rightly pointed out, we must be careful about hastily judging others. I too believe that this is far too great a responsibility for me, or any other flawed adn imperfect human being.
O Lord and Master of my life, cast away from me the spirit of laziness, idle curiosity, love of power and vain talk.
But grant me, Your servant, the spirit of moderation, humility, patience and love. Yes, Lord and King, grant me to see my own faults and not to judge my brothers and sisters.
For You are blessed forever. Amen
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(not a compromiser)
His unworthy servant,
Eusebios.
 
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Looks like I hit a nerve. Tell me andry, can you prove you do not worship the false god of Public Acceptance?
 
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GOod point. I fell I have very right to tell somone that they are wrong whether they are offended or not. (if they truly are wrong)
Right, be we need to be careful. You cannot criticize or be angry with a non-christian about a christian issue, they do not know. Even Jesus said "Have mercy on them, for they do not know what they do."

I guess I'm just saying that we need to be more Christ-like by loving as Christ did.
 
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Well said.

Its sad to see people use the life of Christ to justify ugly behavior. Hating sin and attacking the sinner are two different things - and often attacking the sinner is nothing more that an excuse to hate those who interpret the world or even the Bible differently that do you.
 
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Goriller said:
Looks like I hit a nerve. Tell me andry, can you prove you do not worship the false god of Public Acceptance?

Don't make that assumption. It's so easy to be a critic. Be kind enough to stay on topic and respond to the post before going off on a tangent.
 
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andry said:
O wise one, please enlighten us with your profound wisdom on what you are doing about it?

1. What is your purpose on this earth?
To glorify God by enjoying Him.

2. Would God agree with you that us Christian wimps are actually nicer than him?
Yes, being nicer than God is unbiblical. God commands us to rebuke sinners in order to save them from the harm they do to themselves and others. But that might make them "not like us" so most Chistians who worship the false god of Public Acceptance, who worship their comfort zones, don't say anything at all and the sinner continues in his adulterous affair or alchoholism or theft from the company he works for and the next thing you know he loses his family, his wife loses her husband and his children lose their father. All because some "nicer than God" Christian didn't want to be disliked for a whole 30 seconds by the person he was thinking about rebuking.

Wow, that made my day, I'm actually nicer than God? Wooohooo..!
And you will have to explain to God one day why you were too much of a coward to risk being disliked by anyone.

3. How did you get to your esteemed positioned of judge and jury? I believe the executioner position is filled, but you may want to check into that, as you must also be more than qualified to do that.
I am commanded in the Bible to judge.

4. Please enlighten us poor souls on how to evangelize effectively.
Sure, no problem. Sinners need to be convinced that they are sinners before they will ask for forgiveness. This is why the Bible says the Law was our tudor to bring us to Christ. Show sinners how much they have violated the Law and they will see their need for forgiveness. But showing people they are sinners will cause many of them to not like you for a whole 30 seconds, therefore most Christians reject this method.

Most of the disciples who took Christ's yoke upon them were martyred. Christ was also murdered. Many Christians down through the centuries were martyred for their faith. But the fact that most Christians today are not even disliked by anyone is testimony that there is something wrong with their spiritual walk.
 
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