Im a young adult who still lives at home and is beyond super close to my family especially my mom.. but I've been with my bf for a year and we're talking marriage down the road only my mom hates hates HATES him... said she's sad I'm with him that she's tried to like him but he keeps disrespecting her and she wants me to marry someone else but if he's who I choose to date I just need to accept it is what it is... I don't want to leave him but her approval means so so much. Any advice?
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No, I don't find him disrespectful. He respects all my wishes and beliefs
He did, however, start off a bit rough not going to lie. He's not used to the family life never having a strong one himself, but hes learning. Back in sept he made a dumb comment about her skin tone vein so "white" ( he's Hispanic) so she feels he might be a racist. Ir was so dumb of him I know, but she got passed it and was starting to have positive thoughts about him. Then on valentines day night he made a couple crack about an actress being an old woman bcuz she's in her 40s, my moms 41‚ he realized he'd stepped in it and did the "oh crud" smile so she feels he purposely said it to be mean and hurtful to her. So she said she's done and she will never approve.
He did, however, start off a bit rough not going to lie. He's not used to the family life never having a strong one himself, but hes learning. Back in sept he made a dumb comment about her skin tone vein so "white" ( he's Hispanic) so she feels he might be a racist. Ir was so dumb of him I know, but she got passed it and was starting to have positive thoughts about him. Then on valentines day night he made a couple crack about an actress being an old woman bcuz she's in her 40s, my moms 41‚ he realized he'd stepped in it and did the "oh crud" smile so she feels he purposely said it to be mean and hurtful to her. So she said she's done and she will never approve.
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If he is a teenager, Id give him some leeway with this stuff, but really, he sounds like a bit much. He's rude and uncouth, nothing you'd want to father children.
Look for a new bf, and don't be so quick to talk about marriage, working you way to that subject takes time, and time without easily avoidable upsets that you see with your current bf.
Look for a new bf, and don't be so quick to talk about marriage, working you way to that subject takes time, and time without easily avoidable upsets that you see with your current bf.
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Eh he'll be 21 in may... ans other than those two incidents he's been very good. He was so excited to give her his Christmas gift that he begged her to open it on Christmas eve. Also I've been on bed rest ans so sick since sept and he's been by side patiently, im so sick even one side of my vocal cords is paralyzed so my speech is not easy to understand. He also knows my moms been so busy takimfcare of me that he'll randomly offs to buy us pizza or what ever and brings it for us for dinner... and im not one to rushy those comments having been burned in past, we've been together a year and he's stuck by me faithfully thru so much in this yearthat most young guys would have ran from..
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Thanks I think so too. Thank you for your opinion 
) I don't think he's bad just needs a filter ;(
) I don't think he's bad just needs a filter ;(
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