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<blockquote data-quote="traingosorry" data-source="post: 9077245" data-attributes="member: 28790"><p>Hey Sweety _ I am really sorry you are stuck in this awkward, awful situation. </p><p></p><p>Your boss/aunt's husband is definitely abusing his position, because not only is he coming on to you, but also because of the connection you have with family and him being your boss, he seems to think he can get away with whatever he wants and he thinks there is nothing much you can do about it. </p><p></p><p>I ask you, how important is this job? Is there a human resources dept you can contact ( you can file a complaint/sexual harassment) or another supervisor you can go to? If at all possible start looking for another job now, so that you can separate yourself from this man. Pray to God about this and ask that He provide you with the means of finances so that you can get yourself out of this home you live in with your aunt. </p><p></p><p>Speak to your mom. Don't worry about scaring her- you need support, someone who can back you up when you confront your aunt or her husband. If she doesn't react well....have faith that God will get you through this, and she will see. </p><p></p><p>Just make sure you confide in someone of higher status - either another older family member, or someone at work, it helps to have someone on your team. </p><p></p><p>When your boss tries to get you alone find reasons to leave- if he calls you back into the room, stay in the doorway and act as if you are in a rush to do something, and say so if he insists you sit down. Just make sure you aren't caught alone with him.</p><p></p><p>I don't know what else I can tell you right now. I will pray for you in this situation, that it improves and hopefully will clear up entirely. </p><p></p><p>Be strong lady!</p><p></p><p>Heather</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="traingosorry, post: 9077245, member: 28790"] Hey Sweety _ I am really sorry you are stuck in this awkward, awful situation. Your boss/aunt's husband is definitely abusing his position, because not only is he coming on to you, but also because of the connection you have with family and him being your boss, he seems to think he can get away with whatever he wants and he thinks there is nothing much you can do about it. I ask you, how important is this job? Is there a human resources dept you can contact ( you can file a complaint/sexual harassment) or another supervisor you can go to? If at all possible start looking for another job now, so that you can separate yourself from this man. Pray to God about this and ask that He provide you with the means of finances so that you can get yourself out of this home you live in with your aunt. Speak to your mom. Don't worry about scaring her- you need support, someone who can back you up when you confront your aunt or her husband. If she doesn't react well....have faith that God will get you through this, and she will see. Just make sure you confide in someone of higher status - either another older family member, or someone at work, it helps to have someone on your team. When your boss tries to get you alone find reasons to leave- if he calls you back into the room, stay in the doorway and act as if you are in a rush to do something, and say so if he insists you sit down. Just make sure you aren't caught alone with him. I don't know what else I can tell you right now. I will pray for you in this situation, that it improves and hopefully will clear up entirely. Be strong lady! Heather [/QUOTE]
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