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It's not fair, i can't go to church anymore. I admit it, I have misbehaved in church as a child and teen. I used to draw in church, when I was little I would fidget or fall asleep or yawn. And then when I was older, I was so sensitive to the message I would cry. I have not been back to church in several years. I grew up going to Southern Baptist churches, I have been to Methodist and Lutheran churches. I was going off and on to a church, my parents did not like the way the people dressed, it was very casual, the problem was my parents and I considered the way the young women dressed to revealing, to loose, not appropriate of Christian women. The pastor's secretary wore a low spaghetti strap blouse, revealing a lot of cleavage, her shoulders and back. and a short skirt, it could have been a short dress with spaghetti straps.

Anyway, it was a young people's church, my parents did not like it. I started taking art lessons with a kind, understanding smart elderly Christian lady artist. She taught me a lot, not just a lot about art, but about the Lord and the Bible and some good books, and she understood about my mental illness and my sister's mental illness, she was so patient and compassionate. I behaved very badly a few times, and she forgave me, when other people would have given up on me. Well, eventually she died and went on to her heavenly reward. She tried to convince me and my Dad to go to her Methodist church. I have been to that Methodist church a few times, but not since she died, it has been almost five years.

I can't drive due to my mental illness. I take art lesson in the week at the local visual arts center. My mom sleeps during the morning hours, she stays up late at night. I watch Dr. Charles Stanley on Sunday as my Sunday 'church' my dad get chicken on Sunday. We don't go to church anymore.

One of the problems going to church is politics. My parents and I are democrats. We strongly dislike the president, Mr. Trump. he lies so much, he is a megalomaniac. he does not behave like a decent human being, and he certainly does not behave like a Christian, trump has never said anything about being a Christian. I don't understand why 'evangelicals' like him. Those people are like pharisees. So many baptists have chased after trump. Shame on them! They should act more like Jesus Christ instead of like pharisee hypocrites. I don't want to go to a church where they sing the praises of trump. Trump should be booed, not praised. This just might be the biggest reason why I do not go back to church, and it is a shame, because politics and religion should be separated.
 

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He's a classic Narcissist. Where do you get your chicken?
 
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This just might be the biggest reason why I do not go back to church, and it is a shame, because politics and religion should be separated
So why don't you separate your political beliefs from your religious beliefs and go to church?
Or, should only other people follow that?
 
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You are right. God commands us to pray for those in authority over us, not tear them down. Imagine Christians praying for Nero! Yet that was exactly what Christian were commanded to do. Pray that the person that pleases God will be elected. Ask Him for the leader you need, not the one you deserve. You get a bunch of people doing that and watch what happens.

I don't believe that political differences should divide Christians. There are far to many (specious) reasons to argue as it is. Agreeing to disagree has to become a way of life for us. Obviously some truths are not negotiable, but most Christians are in agreement on those anyway.
 
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Sounds very strange... sorry.
 
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Sounds like you are not allowing yourself to go to church, whereas you are more than capable of going, except that you are making up reasons not to.

Most true Christian churches are conservative in nature, both in politics and tradition. My suggestion would be to continue to study your bible and pray for God to reveal His Truth to you.

As a conservative Christian, I still support Trump as he is the best option for our country at this point. If there were another successful businessman that did not have as many skeletons in their closet and has turned around multi-million dollar organizations I will vote for them. As long as they also do not support abortion.
 
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He's a classic Narcissist. Where do you get your chicken?
My Dad gets chicken from Publix. We live in Florida. Do you have a Publix supermarket where you live? It is fried chicken tenders, no bones, little skin.
 
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Did I say anything about women's rights? Did I say anything about Catholics? So why are you complaining?
Where did I complain? I said it sounded very strange. And gave my sympathy by saying sorry. Also offered prayers. I have no idea why you are bringing up women’s rights to me? Sheesh.
 
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