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No longer a serious discussion is it? Perhaps it never was.TeddyKGB said:How do I choose what to read?
Not my intention, but sometimes being circumspect is the only way to make my point.elman said:No longer a serious discussion is it? Perhaps it never was.
AFallingStar said:Can you control what you believe or do you think the very core of your beliefs are determined by outside/other factors?
Osel said:Basing your beliefs solely on your emotions, or how you "feel" about an issue is not a sign of intellectual maturity since there is no rationalization.
So I can't just change what I believe directly; rather, I have to use a "method" to change what I know I want to change but can't just change?Merlin said:Yes.
I do it for a living.
No you don't chose what you want, but you do chose what you want to read.TeddyKGB said:Not my intention, but sometimes being circumspect is the only way to make my point.
Let me try a different angle. Do I always choose what I want?
If I choose what I want in every case, why call it a choice? I want what I want; I do not get to choose that, do I?elman said:No you don't chose what you want, but you do chose what you want to read.
TeddyKGB said:So I can't just change what I believe directly; rather, I have to use a "method" to change what I know I want to change but can't just change?
Yeah, it's called "two apples and two apples are four apples, not seven."Merlin said:2+2=7
It is a normal response to reject the above statement.
There is a mental filter which blocks such belief changes, for our protection..
Is it the one where I convince myself that 2 = 3.5?No matter how much you practice, meditate or whatever, you will still know deep inside 2+2=7 is false.
The protective filter must be bypassed or otherwise gotten around.
There is a method/process for bypassing the filter.
elman said:We can control what we believe. We can control if we will be loving or unloving.
jamesMarion said:I can choose to accept whether something is true or not to me.
Can you control what you believe?
This was your response to this: QuoteTeddyKGB said:If I choose what I want in every case, why call it a choice? I want what I want; I do not get to choose that, do I?
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