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The actions of people who call themselves Christians and yet frankly never act like it is a concern for another thread. The OP asked what logically moral reason there is for homosexuality to be wrong, and we're trying to discuss that here. Thank you for the false accusation.
 
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You are still making these assertions like "homosexuality is a disease" upon what do you base these assertions? Personal medical and psychological expertise? I doubt it. Homosexuality is no more a disease than being right handed is. It cannot be changed, numerous studies have been done:

Shidlo, Ariel; Schroeder, Michael; Professional Psychology: Research and Practice, Vol 33(3), Jun 2002. pp. 249-259.

Haldeman, Douglas C.; Professional Psychology: Research and Practice, Vol 33(3), Jun 2002. pp. 260-264.

Rothblum, Esther D.; Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, Vol. 62 (2), April 1994. pp. 211-212

Haldeman, Douglas C.; Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, Vol 62(2), Apr 1994. pp. 221-227.

There is no "cure" because homosexuality is not a disease.
 
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And the ironic thing is that you haven't even begun to provide a LOGICAL MORAL/ETHICAL reason for the notion that homosexuality is wrong. and btw, the sarcasm is in poor taste.
 
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Wrong. Homosexuality is a symptom of a greater "disease": sin.

Sin infects ALL people, not exclusively homosexuals. I base this observation on the best source there is, the holy Word of God.
 
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And the ironic thing is that you haven't even begun to provide a LOGICAL MORAL/ETHICAL reason for the notion that homosexuality is wrong. and btw, the sarcasm is in poor taste.
No, the funny thing is I've posted the following three times now, and you haven't even begun to address a single point, and actually accuse me of not saying anything.

 
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Wrong. Homosexuality is a symptom of a greater "disease": sin.

Sin infects ALL people, not exclusively homosexuals. I base this observation on the best source there is, the holy Word of God.


petitio prencipii!

The point of the discussion is to provide logical evidence and leave DOGMA out of it. Justify your beliefs without falling on the Bible which cannot be logically proven. Can you not use reason to justify your beliefs?
 
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petitio prencipii!

The point of the discussion is to provide logical evidence and leave DOGMA out of it. Justify your beliefs without falling on the Bible which cannot be logically proven. Can you not use reason to justify your beliefs?
The Bible is the highest form of "reason" there is.

Without God, life is irrelevant.
 
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Arrrrgggghhh!!!!

I spent over an hour crafting an answer to to Bread Alone's response to me but when I hit the "Submit" button it disappeared into the ether, never to be recovered. Sometimes this site is just so frustrating.
OH NOES! I HATE when that happens!!

Now I want to read it too..oh well..
 
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I doubt that I'll be able to recreate it half as well. I may try again tomorrow anyway.

The short version:

My "accusation" was not false. The OP was prompted by a muder that you either did not care about or that you missed because you did not read the OP. Why else would you object to the "sudden" interjection of the idea of killing?

Then I addressed your concern that instead of "false accusations" we should consider the actual question in the OP.

I quoted from all of your posts in this thread and I could not find any posts where you gave a "logically moral reason" that did not involve quoting the Bible or presenting a conclusion withiut the backing premises, because those backing premises were clearly entirely Biblical.

None of these matched the OP request for "sheer logic and scientific study."

I pointed out that Paul assures us in Romans 1:19-20 that "because that which is known of God is manifest in them; for God manifested it unto them. For the invisible things of him since the creation of the world are clearly seen, being perceived through the things that are made, [even] his everlasting power and divinity; that they may be without excuse."

If this statement is true, as we both believe, and if "homosexuality" is wrong, as you also believe, then there should be no problem showing that second conition to be a fact using "sheer logic and scientific study."
 
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The Bible is sheer logic, however, and the root of all science and understanding.

And why don't you continue on in that chapter? You know, the part about "God turned them over to their shameful lusts" where they abandoned natural relations with women for "unnatural" ones. Or the part where their "women abandoned natural relations with men and were inflammed with lust for one another (or something to that extent.)"

The power of sin and darkness is able to dilute our already corrupted hearts and consciences, you know. But often in their younger years, homosexuals claim to feel "wrong" about their lifestyle. (At least some do.)
 
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Okay, some responses to what's been said so far:

First, a short note on "the Word of God" -- if you actually read the Bible, the term gets used in three ways. First and foremost, it's Jesus Christ, the Eternal Son, in His capacity as the co-eternal member of the Godhead efficaciously causing all things which were made to be made. See John 1:1-18 for details. Second, an individual utterance spoken in God's name by one of the prophets. And third, the collection of such utterances taken as a unit, as in 'You have put God's Word to no account for the traditions of men.'

The Bible is a precious document, our primary source for learning of God's will and the history of His dealings with man. But when it becomes elevated to a status equal to Him of whom it speaks, then those well-meaning Christians who have done so are guilty of the same sin as those described in Romans 1: substituting a created thing for the Creator. To give proper respect to Scripture without doing so is a fine line to walk, but it's what we're called on to do.

Second, it appears that some people hjave convicted Lawrence King of the "sin of homosexuality" -- which Bread Alone at least defined as homosexual acts. (I'm not singling him out, but what people mean by "homosexuality" seems to vary with the poster, and he at least made clear his understanding of the term.)

To be specific, this barely-15-year-old eighth grader "came out" as gay to his classmates, and wore makeup and jewelry. (Which is not saying that all gay people do that -- merely that this one boy did. I've seen the terms 'femme' and 'genderqueer' used in a non-pejorative sense to describe this; someone with more knowledge may want to clarify the proper usage.) There has been no evidence in any news reports to indicate that Lawrence actually acted on his sexuality -- was 'homosexual' in Bread Alone's usage. He was gay -- homosexual -- only in the sense that he identified as having same=sex desires, the customary meaning of the terms when used by gay people and those who support and defend them. And, tragically, he gave a Valentine to classmate Brandon McInerney, and in consequence was shot twice through the brain and died.

Brandon is a tragedy too. Here we have a 14-year-old kid, also in the 8th grade, who somehow got access to a gun and somehow formed the idea that it was acceptable to kill another person for making romantic advances to him. And in consequence he's to be tried as an adult for first degree murder, aggravated as a hate crime, plus a couple of lesser charges. For all practical purposes his life is now over as well.

This hits home with me. Just before I loaded this thread, I exchanged e-mails with a fellow author in a "shared universe" group of stories. And among the memorable characters he created is a boy named Lawrence, 15 years old, gay and with gender dysphoria issues, and was (like Lawrence King) estranged from his family. The story he appeared in is two years old now; Lawrence will be supporting cast in an upcoming installment of one of my stories. The fact that his Lawrence is blond and lived in Florida (the real-life Larence had dark brown hair and lived in Oxnard, California) seems almost negligible beside the similarities.

For me, this is not a random news story of a tragedy somewhere else. I've had that boy's fictional analog running around inside my head, trying out variant plotlines for the installment he appears in. I know that boy; this is family that got killed.

Now, to me the question is, how did Brandon get the idea it was right to do what he did? And knowing the answer to that, how can we stop it from happening again? Maybe not a murder, just some kid getting beat up, and it barely makes the local news if that. And what's our culpability about all this? How could we have prevented it, and didn't?

For me, the next person to redirect the issue of violence against gay people into a debate of their sinfulness is guilty of being an accomplice before the fact to assault and/or murder. We Christians have had the public ear, and we''ve filled it with the idea that gay people are abominable, evil people. And those who would use violence against abominations and evil have gotten a license from that that it is OK to beat up and kill gay people. It doesn't matter if that's not what you consider just and proper -- by your words you are enabling the ones who do consider it just and proper.

There needs to be an end to it. Now. Before there's another Matthew Shepard or Lawrence King. If you choose otherwise, their blood is on your hands.
 
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The problem occurs when people (such as these murderers) think their attrocities are somehow less abominable than their victims. Frankly, Brandon not only murdered Lawrence physically, but he abruptly ended his time of grace, and while we can't judge his heart, we can assume he was at that point in his life so turned off to Christianity he may be dead eternally also.
 
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That is a powerful testimony. I am almost ashamed that I find myself more comfortable debating with Bread Alone on this thread than posting on the other thread where they are confronting the hatred more directly.
 
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The Bible is sheer logic, however, and the root of all science and understanding.

The truth of that statement depends on the meaning of several words in it. I suspet that our definitions are different enough that even if I did agree that the statement was true we would mean different things by it. (And it still is a conclusion without established premises to back it up)


I have looked at those later verses several times in other threads, but they are off topic in this one. (Although I will point out that Paul carefully chose his words, especially including the ones you quote as being translated "shameful," "lusts," "unnatural," to emphasize that the sin he was talking about was "using" another person and treating them as a sex object --because then you yourself become just another object for sex, you "burn" with "lust" and become a slave to your desires -- and not the fact that in the example that he borrowed from another source the action happened to involve same-sex partners

But often in their younger years, homosexuals claim to feel "wrong" about their lifestyle. (At least some do.)

And abused children learn to believe that they deserve to be beaten. They will often prefer to return to their abuser than face the unknown with their rescuers.

If young gays in school are being beat up, kicked into lockers and even raped, is it any wonder that they behave like abused children?
 
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Honey, I've posted a question similar to this one couple of day ago. Do not expect a simple, straightforward and logical answer. It is impossible to get a responce that has at least a trace of thinking.

It's like talking to Bots.
 
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Honey, I've posted a question similar to this one couple of day ago. Do not expect a simple, straightforward and logical answer. It is impossible to get a responce that has at least a trace of thinking.

It's like talking to Bots.

agreed, deluded bots at that.
 
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Just for the record, I have still yet to receive my logical answer. Using the bible in such a response makes an answer illogical since the basis for truth in such an argument is based off an authority (the bible) which cannot be proven true logically. I am looking for a logical argument, you know with premises and a conclusion, not some cop out answer like: the bible is truth and life is meaningless without it. My life has great meaning (to me at least) and my life has nothing to do with the bible. either provide a logical answer or submit to the fact that a logical answer... a logical rationale against homosexuality... cannot be produced.
 
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There is no logical answer here.
For those who accept that the Bible is God's word, engaging in homosexual activity is a sin... though no worse that any other sin.

For those who do not accept the Bible in this way, there is no problem with an act which harms no-one.
For both 'sides' however, murder is abhorrent, and a society which produces 14 year olds with this attitude has serious problems.

But there is no point in Christians and non-Christians debating this point endlessly - we have different world-views, and will never agree on issues which depend on faith, because the very nature of faith means that there is no concrete proof.

So perhaps it would be more productive t discuss how we can prevent this kind of thing ever happening again.... an outcome which surely we can all agree is desirable.
 
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