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Burning... Over a minister

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This is the issue, my friend is a Pentecostal minister. I kinda have feelings for him and he had feelings for me but for several reasons he doesn't think a romantic relationship would work.

Anyway I just freaked him out when I confessed I was having sexual dreams about him. He said it's the work of the devil and those dreams conceive demons...

I am a recent widow and I think I am mostly lonely and he does want me to be his friend, but well... How do I stop these inappropriate romantic feelings and dreams I don't want?
 

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Sorry you lost your husband. It appears you'd want to be with someone again. Good news is the Lord is more than able to give you someone, just ask. I believe the feelings you currently have for the minister will eventually fade away.
 
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